Tuesday, December 31, 2002
DECEMBER 31
One fond memory of something I used to do every December 31 as a kid was to remember what song I listened to last for that year and first for the next year. For example, in 1989, the last song I heard was Debbie Gibson's "Lost in Your Eyes" and the first song of 1990 was Paul Abdul's "Straight Up." Why I still remember that, I have no clue. But somehow I do. Maybe it's because Michael was there and we spent that whole night shooting pool.
In 1998, I had long stopped doing the whole "last song" thing, but I remember what the last movie I saw was: Men In Black. We had a big get-together at my house and were all watching Men In Black when someone suddenly turned it off so we could watch Dick Clark count down the last 25 seconds or so. And as as soon as that darn ball dropped, we switched it back to the movie and nobody said anything. How anti-climatic!
One last Dec. 31 memory was in 1991 when I was in bed by 8:45 so that I could be at school (Schurr High) by 3:30 to get ready to march in the Rose Parade. It was definitely a once-in-a-lifetime experience, but I hated having to go to bed so early and leave the party behind.
What song or movie or memory will be cemented in my mind this year?
Probably having Karena by my side. (It's cheesy, I know).
One fond memory of something I used to do every December 31 as a kid was to remember what song I listened to last for that year and first for the next year. For example, in 1989, the last song I heard was Debbie Gibson's "Lost in Your Eyes" and the first song of 1990 was Paul Abdul's "Straight Up." Why I still remember that, I have no clue. But somehow I do. Maybe it's because Michael was there and we spent that whole night shooting pool.
In 1998, I had long stopped doing the whole "last song" thing, but I remember what the last movie I saw was: Men In Black. We had a big get-together at my house and were all watching Men In Black when someone suddenly turned it off so we could watch Dick Clark count down the last 25 seconds or so. And as as soon as that darn ball dropped, we switched it back to the movie and nobody said anything. How anti-climatic!
One last Dec. 31 memory was in 1991 when I was in bed by 8:45 so that I could be at school (Schurr High) by 3:30 to get ready to march in the Rose Parade. It was definitely a once-in-a-lifetime experience, but I hated having to go to bed so early and leave the party behind.
What song or movie or memory will be cemented in my mind this year?
Probably having Karena by my side. (It's cheesy, I know).
Sunday, December 29, 2002
LOOKING BACK AT 2002
One thing I love doing on the Sunday before the end of the year is watching the Evening News because they go through all the big news stories of the year. It's amazing to think that everything from Daniel Pearl to the Washington DC sniper to Chick Hearn dying to Spider Man ruling the box office all happened this year. Some highlights (or lowlights as the case might be) for me personally this year were my little snowboarding accident and subsequent knee surgery that left me out of work for 2 months and off the basketball couts for the rest of my life. Also, this is the year that I will also remember getting engaged on a beautiful Santa Barbara afternoon in July. And Karena and I got a lot of helpful tips by attending a personal record nine weddings this year.
What made 2002 exciting and eventful for you?
Here's to an even better 2003!
One thing I love doing on the Sunday before the end of the year is watching the Evening News because they go through all the big news stories of the year. It's amazing to think that everything from Daniel Pearl to the Washington DC sniper to Chick Hearn dying to Spider Man ruling the box office all happened this year. Some highlights (or lowlights as the case might be) for me personally this year were my little snowboarding accident and subsequent knee surgery that left me out of work for 2 months and off the basketball couts for the rest of my life. Also, this is the year that I will also remember getting engaged on a beautiful Santa Barbara afternoon in July. And Karena and I got a lot of helpful tips by attending a personal record nine weddings this year.
What made 2002 exciting and eventful for you?
Here's to an even better 2003!
RICHARD AND DANETTE'S WEDDING
It's always nice to see two of your good friends getting married. It's even more special when you get the opportunity to help usher and do some of the "dirty work." I usually end up doing some joking complaining, but the truth is that I always find it an honor to be able to celebrate with the happy couple in this capacity. One thing we ushers had to do yesterday was quickly pick up all the rose pedals off the floor. I felt like those little animated cartoon guys who come out on "TV's Bloopers and Practical Jokes" who sweep and clean up.
The banquet was like a CEFC reunion -- with the return of so many people including Beth and Maurice, Nikki Tram, Greg Go, Amy Lo, Dick and Carolyn, Danny and Sue, Allison Watanabe, etc. And it was weird that I didn't end up dancing, but spent the evening catching up with different people. I have to admit that I definitely feel more comfortable dancing at these things, but it was good to be able to have some deep conversations with people in the midst of all the bass-blaring music.
In the end, Karena and I took a picture with Richard and Danette and I have to say, there was not a happier, more beautiful couple in the room!
It's always nice to see two of your good friends getting married. It's even more special when you get the opportunity to help usher and do some of the "dirty work." I usually end up doing some joking complaining, but the truth is that I always find it an honor to be able to celebrate with the happy couple in this capacity. One thing we ushers had to do yesterday was quickly pick up all the rose pedals off the floor. I felt like those little animated cartoon guys who come out on "TV's Bloopers and Practical Jokes" who sweep and clean up.
The banquet was like a CEFC reunion -- with the return of so many people including Beth and Maurice, Nikki Tram, Greg Go, Amy Lo, Dick and Carolyn, Danny and Sue, Allison Watanabe, etc. And it was weird that I didn't end up dancing, but spent the evening catching up with different people. I have to admit that I definitely feel more comfortable dancing at these things, but it was good to be able to have some deep conversations with people in the midst of all the bass-blaring music.
In the end, Karena and I took a picture with Richard and Danette and I have to say, there was not a happier, more beautiful couple in the room!
Saturday, December 28, 2002
WHITE ELEPHANT GIFT EXCHANGE
I have to admit that I saw it coming. Since I knew we hadn't publicized this event as much as in years past, we'd have a smaller turn-out. And we did. Was I disappointed? Yes. Was I hurt? A little. See, the problem with being Koinonia core chair is that I take everything so personally. I sincerely just want everybody to love God more, love people more, and to have a good time during this year that I lead the group. But I'm not so sure any of those three is happening right now. Anyway, these were the types of thoughts running through my head at the start of the event.
Then, Karena reminded me to focus on who is here and that made all the difference. It was great to have Amy come home and participate, Andrew from England, and Raymond, Allison, and Kimmy be Koi members for one night. The gift exchange was as funny as ever, with a duster and a fibro-optic poinsettia being the "hot" gifts this year. Okay, okay, they were hilariously bad, but we all had a good time laughing about it.
Afterwards, I could barely remember what I was initially so upset about. I can't wait 'til next year!
I have to admit that I saw it coming. Since I knew we hadn't publicized this event as much as in years past, we'd have a smaller turn-out. And we did. Was I disappointed? Yes. Was I hurt? A little. See, the problem with being Koinonia core chair is that I take everything so personally. I sincerely just want everybody to love God more, love people more, and to have a good time during this year that I lead the group. But I'm not so sure any of those three is happening right now. Anyway, these were the types of thoughts running through my head at the start of the event.
Then, Karena reminded me to focus on who is here and that made all the difference. It was great to have Amy come home and participate, Andrew from England, and Raymond, Allison, and Kimmy be Koi members for one night. The gift exchange was as funny as ever, with a duster and a fibro-optic poinsettia being the "hot" gifts this year. Okay, okay, they were hilariously bad, but we all had a good time laughing about it.
Afterwards, I could barely remember what I was initially so upset about. I can't wait 'til next year!
Thursday, December 26, 2002
A GREAT CHRISTMAS
Even though I was thoroughly exhausted, it was well worth it to have both sides of the family, Karena's family, my dad's best man and his family, and some other people I didn't know over at my house to celebrate Christmas together. The food was plentiful, the company warm, and the atmosphere festive.
Just a quick reminder: Friday night is our annual White Elephant Gift Exchange. The publicity has not been as good as I would have liked so please spread the word. It's at my place in Montebello at 7:30. The gifts should be $10 or less and should be wrapped so as to keep the mystery. This is a VERY FUNNY event so it would be great to have you there!
Even though I was thoroughly exhausted, it was well worth it to have both sides of the family, Karena's family, my dad's best man and his family, and some other people I didn't know over at my house to celebrate Christmas together. The food was plentiful, the company warm, and the atmosphere festive.
Just a quick reminder: Friday night is our annual White Elephant Gift Exchange. The publicity has not been as good as I would have liked so please spread the word. It's at my place in Montebello at 7:30. The gifts should be $10 or less and should be wrapped so as to keep the mystery. This is a VERY FUNNY event so it would be great to have you there!
Wednesday, December 25, 2002
THOUGHTS FROM THE CHRISTMAS TREE
Some of you know that every Christmas Eve, I spend a little time before I go to bed, just sitting all alone in front of our Christmas tree. Most of the time, it starts out as a stream-of-cousciousness thought process that eventually turns into a prayer. Here are some of those thoughts/prayers:
It's amazing how it doesn't even seem that long ago that I would spend the night of Christmas eve slyly moving all my presents to the back of the tree so I could tear a little piece of the wrapping and see what each gift was. That seems like only yesterday. And yet, it seems so far away too. This year, I've definitely not been in the Christmas spirit. Did I get caught up in the commercialism of the holiday? Yes. Did I get caught up in the busy-ness of the season? Yes. Did I forget that Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Jesus? Doubly yes.
What a wretched man I am! The more I try to "grow up" and become a man, the more I realize I need to have faith like a child. How ironic.
And now, I realize that this is probably the last time I'll be sitting in front of this tree, in the house. Next year, I'll be sitting in my own home. So that means, I should really savor and cherish this moment.
"It's a Wonderful Life" was on TV tonight. That got me thinking about my favorite scene in the whole movie: George Bailey prays out of desperation, "I'm not a praying man. But ... show me the way." He is a man at the end of his rope, in pure desperation. And Father, in many ways, I am also that man. I am a man covered in sin that has kept me away from praising You, even during this Christmas season. I've become too focused on the daily grind of life, and have neglected to care about people and to remember from where I came from. Father, show me the way.
Show me the way.
Merry Christmas to all!!!
Some of you know that every Christmas Eve, I spend a little time before I go to bed, just sitting all alone in front of our Christmas tree. Most of the time, it starts out as a stream-of-cousciousness thought process that eventually turns into a prayer. Here are some of those thoughts/prayers:
It's amazing how it doesn't even seem that long ago that I would spend the night of Christmas eve slyly moving all my presents to the back of the tree so I could tear a little piece of the wrapping and see what each gift was. That seems like only yesterday. And yet, it seems so far away too. This year, I've definitely not been in the Christmas spirit. Did I get caught up in the commercialism of the holiday? Yes. Did I get caught up in the busy-ness of the season? Yes. Did I forget that Christmas is a celebration of the birth of Jesus? Doubly yes.
What a wretched man I am! The more I try to "grow up" and become a man, the more I realize I need to have faith like a child. How ironic.
And now, I realize that this is probably the last time I'll be sitting in front of this tree, in the house. Next year, I'll be sitting in my own home. So that means, I should really savor and cherish this moment.
"It's a Wonderful Life" was on TV tonight. That got me thinking about my favorite scene in the whole movie: George Bailey prays out of desperation, "I'm not a praying man. But ... show me the way." He is a man at the end of his rope, in pure desperation. And Father, in many ways, I am also that man. I am a man covered in sin that has kept me away from praising You, even during this Christmas season. I've become too focused on the daily grind of life, and have neglected to care about people and to remember from where I came from. Father, show me the way.
Show me the way.
Merry Christmas to all!!!
Tuesday, December 24, 2002
WHAT HAVE WE BECOME?
I just found out this past weekend that somebody stole the two Christmas lights reindeers that we put up at my cousins' place. How unbelieveable is that? I mean, how desperate do you have to be to steal Christmas decorations? I was very unhappy about this especially because we worked so hard to put up all that stuff. Plus, those reindeer aren't cheap. And I won't even go into the fact that this is the Christmas season where "goodwill towards men" is supposed to be apparent everywhere we look. So much for my rose-colored look at life, huh?
What have we become?
God, save us.
I just found out this past weekend that somebody stole the two Christmas lights reindeers that we put up at my cousins' place. How unbelieveable is that? I mean, how desperate do you have to be to steal Christmas decorations? I was very unhappy about this especially because we worked so hard to put up all that stuff. Plus, those reindeer aren't cheap. And I won't even go into the fact that this is the Christmas season where "goodwill towards men" is supposed to be apparent everywhere we look. So much for my rose-colored look at life, huh?
What have we become?
God, save us.
Monday, December 23, 2002
THE HIGHS AND LOWS
Here were this past weekend's highs and lows:
Highs:
1. Going to San Diego for Mike and Joyce's wedding
2. Spending some really good quality time with the family (Gabe and Karena included)
3. Being able to look at our pre-wedding photos that turned out really well.
4. Having one of the best lunches I've had in a while -- about 14 of us CEFCers cramming into two small tables at Baccali for a loud boisterious meal that included deep conversation, laughing, and a warm atmosphere.
5. The Lakers finally squeezing out a victory.
Lows:
1. Losing a $75 gift card that was supposed to be a Christmas gift for someone else, tearing up my room trying to find it, and still not finding it, leaving me with a messy room and still nothing to show for it.
2. Having to narrow down the field of 50 pre-wedding pictures into 20. For some reason, it was driving me nuts to have to eliminate pictures I really loved.
3. Having my dad be very upset at us for being late to a dinner with my grandmother.
Something about this "highs and lows" rollercoaster has made me very exhausted. But I'm still trying to stay in the Christmas spirit, but it's difficult.
Here were this past weekend's highs and lows:
Highs:
1. Going to San Diego for Mike and Joyce's wedding
2. Spending some really good quality time with the family (Gabe and Karena included)
3. Being able to look at our pre-wedding photos that turned out really well.
4. Having one of the best lunches I've had in a while -- about 14 of us CEFCers cramming into two small tables at Baccali for a loud boisterious meal that included deep conversation, laughing, and a warm atmosphere.
5. The Lakers finally squeezing out a victory.
Lows:
1. Losing a $75 gift card that was supposed to be a Christmas gift for someone else, tearing up my room trying to find it, and still not finding it, leaving me with a messy room and still nothing to show for it.
2. Having to narrow down the field of 50 pre-wedding pictures into 20. For some reason, it was driving me nuts to have to eliminate pictures I really loved.
3. Having my dad be very upset at us for being late to a dinner with my grandmother.
Something about this "highs and lows" rollercoaster has made me very exhausted. But I'm still trying to stay in the Christmas spirit, but it's difficult.
Sunday, December 22, 2002
JOYCE AND MIKE'S WEDDING
I was afraid the day was going to be ruined after all the downpour that was going on in San Diego. Sure, their plans for a beautiful outdoor wedding overlooking the ocean were washed away. Sure, the place they had chosen specifically because of their outdoor scenery would have to squeeze everybody indoors. Sure, Joyce had lost of her voice to laryngitis. And sure, the rain left all their guests coming in totally soaked suits and dresses.
But the day would not be ruined. No, in fact, the day became more special as a result of it.
Mike and Joyce shared a touching letter to their parents and shared personal vows to each other. Joyce, forced to speak in a whisper, only made the moment more touching by speaking so softly. And actually, the rain pouring down outside provided an unexpectedly scenic backdrop as the happy couple became husband and wife.
What God has so beautifully and amazingly joined together, let no man break apart.
I was afraid the day was going to be ruined after all the downpour that was going on in San Diego. Sure, their plans for a beautiful outdoor wedding overlooking the ocean were washed away. Sure, the place they had chosen specifically because of their outdoor scenery would have to squeeze everybody indoors. Sure, Joyce had lost of her voice to laryngitis. And sure, the rain left all their guests coming in totally soaked suits and dresses.
But the day would not be ruined. No, in fact, the day became more special as a result of it.
Mike and Joyce shared a touching letter to their parents and shared personal vows to each other. Joyce, forced to speak in a whisper, only made the moment more touching by speaking so softly. And actually, the rain pouring down outside provided an unexpectedly scenic backdrop as the happy couple became husband and wife.
What God has so beautifully and amazingly joined together, let no man break apart.
Saturday, December 21, 2002
OFF TO SAN DIEGO
Despite being in a bad mood because work has been stressful all week, church things have not gone my way, and my stomach has been hurting, I am still VERY excited to be heading to San Diego with my family (Karena and Gabe included) to see my dear cousin Joyce marry Michael Young. I can't wait! (And not just because that means I'll be related to Ko and Charice, either!) =)
Despite being in a bad mood because work has been stressful all week, church things have not gone my way, and my stomach has been hurting, I am still VERY excited to be heading to San Diego with my family (Karena and Gabe included) to see my dear cousin Joyce marry Michael Young. I can't wait! (And not just because that means I'll be related to Ko and Charice, either!) =)
FUNNY CHRISTMAS THOUGHT
I always feel uncomfortable when we sing "What Child is This?" at church because I have to sing the word "ass." For I guy who never says that word, it's weird to then go into church and sing it out so loudly and proudly.
I always feel uncomfortable when we sing "What Child is This?" at church because I have to sing the word "ass." For I guy who never says that word, it's weird to then go into church and sing it out so loudly and proudly.
Thursday, December 19, 2002
PRE-MARITAL COUNSELING PART II
Another thing we discussed during our last session of counseling with Pastor Clive was family dynamics and dealing with your in-laws. As it is, I think both Karena and I have, in one way or another, had to deal with differences in opinion from our families. And that's been difficult at times, especially when trying to find a house and plan such a large wedding.
But we learned that by discussing our problems and concerns and going back to our families as a united front (aka "this is our decision"), that the "guilt trip" will not work on us. Plus, there will be many times when I will inevitably have to say "no" to some family gatherings to be with Karena or her family.
It's weird because I've always known that a wedding may be difficult to plan, but building a marriage is much more difficult. But now that I'm at that point in my life, I find myself so surprised just how much work it requires to build a strong, happy marriage. That just makes me respect married people all the more.
Another thing we discussed during our last session of counseling with Pastor Clive was family dynamics and dealing with your in-laws. As it is, I think both Karena and I have, in one way or another, had to deal with differences in opinion from our families. And that's been difficult at times, especially when trying to find a house and plan such a large wedding.
But we learned that by discussing our problems and concerns and going back to our families as a united front (aka "this is our decision"), that the "guilt trip" will not work on us. Plus, there will be many times when I will inevitably have to say "no" to some family gatherings to be with Karena or her family.
It's weird because I've always known that a wedding may be difficult to plan, but building a marriage is much more difficult. But now that I'm at that point in my life, I find myself so surprised just how much work it requires to build a strong, happy marriage. That just makes me respect married people all the more.
Wednesday, December 18, 2002
PRE-MARITAL COUNSELING PART I
First off, how great is it that my dear cousin Joyce will be getting married in just a few days? I keep thinking about that on and off and that's a pretty sweet deal!
Anyway, Karena and I met with Pastor Clive for the last of our pre-marital counseling sessions. One thing we discussed was about Ephesians 5 and what that means to us. P.C. went on to explain that the wife should voluntarily submit to her husband. However, the husband is supposed to love his life the way Christ loved the church. That is, he loves her so unconditionally and gives up his entire life for her. So, in a way, the wife would find it easy to voluntarily submit to her husband since she knows he has her best interest at heart, even above his own.
First off, how great is it that my dear cousin Joyce will be getting married in just a few days? I keep thinking about that on and off and that's a pretty sweet deal!
Anyway, Karena and I met with Pastor Clive for the last of our pre-marital counseling sessions. One thing we discussed was about Ephesians 5 and what that means to us. P.C. went on to explain that the wife should voluntarily submit to her husband. However, the husband is supposed to love his life the way Christ loved the church. That is, he loves her so unconditionally and gives up his entire life for her. So, in a way, the wife would find it easy to voluntarily submit to her husband since she knows he has her best interest at heart, even above his own.
Tuesday, December 17, 2002
GOOD WILL TOWARDS MEN AT ... COSTCO?
After the photo shoot on Sunday, I went over to Costco. As expected, it was an absolute madhouse. But surprisingly, there was good will exhibited during my entire trip to Costco. First off, parking spaces were limited, but a guy generously offered to give me the space we were both fighting for. Then, I accidentally dropped my wallet in the parking lot, but someone picked it up, turned it in, and didn't even take a single penny from it. Amazing! Finally, since I only had a few items, a few people let me cut ahead of them so I could get out faster.
Sometimes the holidays do bring out the good within people.
Thank God!
After the photo shoot on Sunday, I went over to Costco. As expected, it was an absolute madhouse. But surprisingly, there was good will exhibited during my entire trip to Costco. First off, parking spaces were limited, but a guy generously offered to give me the space we were both fighting for. Then, I accidentally dropped my wallet in the parking lot, but someone picked it up, turned it in, and didn't even take a single penny from it. Amazing! Finally, since I only had a few items, a few people let me cut ahead of them so I could get out faster.
Sometimes the holidays do bring out the good within people.
Thank God!
Monday, December 16, 2002
GETTING SHOT
Karena and I spent the majority of our Sunday in a photo studio getting our indoor studio pre-wedding photos taken. And I have to admit that I didn't think I'd enjoy the experience quite as much as I did.
First off, I have to admit that Karena looked great. I was afraid they would add too much make-up to her face or do weird things to her hair or eyes that would make her look different. The last thing I wanted was for me to take all these pictures with someone who looked more like a stranger than my fiancee. Well, that couldn't have been further from the truth. Everyone in the studio was very professional and did an excellent job. What I was most impressed with was how they used any props around to make the photo shoot even better (including fresh flowers that were supposed to be just for decorating the store -- they just yanked those flowers right out of the vase and gave them to Karena to hold).
The funniest parts were when they had to put a little make-up on me to cover up my "blemishes" and how the photographer had to keep telling me to stick my head more forward so it wouldn't look like I had a double-chin. (Karena loved that one. She couldn't stop laughing.)
We get to see the finished pictures in a week. Needless to say, I can't wait.
Karena and I spent the majority of our Sunday in a photo studio getting our indoor studio pre-wedding photos taken. And I have to admit that I didn't think I'd enjoy the experience quite as much as I did.
First off, I have to admit that Karena looked great. I was afraid they would add too much make-up to her face or do weird things to her hair or eyes that would make her look different. The last thing I wanted was for me to take all these pictures with someone who looked more like a stranger than my fiancee. Well, that couldn't have been further from the truth. Everyone in the studio was very professional and did an excellent job. What I was most impressed with was how they used any props around to make the photo shoot even better (including fresh flowers that were supposed to be just for decorating the store -- they just yanked those flowers right out of the vase and gave them to Karena to hold).
The funniest parts were when they had to put a little make-up on me to cover up my "blemishes" and how the photographer had to keep telling me to stick my head more forward so it wouldn't look like I had a double-chin. (Karena loved that one. She couldn't stop laughing.)
We get to see the finished pictures in a week. Needless to say, I can't wait.
Sunday, December 15, 2002
GOING FROM PARTY TO PARTY
I guess yesterday was a popular day for Christmas parties because Karena and I had three of them scheduled between the two of us and tried to make it to all three. Well, we did alright for ourselves making it to two. But we were extremely exhausted (and our stomaches extrememly full) after it was all said and done.
Here are some quick highlights:
(1) At her boss' party, we were all given a bell to wear around our necks and not allowed to say the word "Christmas," lest we get our bell taken away. The person with the most bells ends up getting the most presents at the end of the evening. Needless to say, I lost mine in the first 30 seconds. I was embarassed, Karena was mortified, but we all had a good time.
(2) Her boss also hired 4 Christmas carolers who came dressed in typical "A Christmas Carol" attire. We ended up cruising up and down the block singing Christmas carols to the neighbors along with them. At first I thought it was pretty cheesy, but after seeing them hugging their neighbors, I thought it was a good example of "Peace on Earth, Goodwill towards men."
(3) After chowing down on some good appetizers at the first party, we proceeded to the second party and ate some delicious Greek food and even more desserts including baklava. This party was thrown by one of the nurses I work with in the hospital. He, along with the other nurses, are so generous and loving people that I'm amazed everytime. Oh yeah, and I did end up having two drinks with virtually no alcohol in them whatsoever, and still ended up completely red-faced.
I guess yesterday was a popular day for Christmas parties because Karena and I had three of them scheduled between the two of us and tried to make it to all three. Well, we did alright for ourselves making it to two. But we were extremely exhausted (and our stomaches extrememly full) after it was all said and done.
Here are some quick highlights:
(1) At her boss' party, we were all given a bell to wear around our necks and not allowed to say the word "Christmas," lest we get our bell taken away. The person with the most bells ends up getting the most presents at the end of the evening. Needless to say, I lost mine in the first 30 seconds. I was embarassed, Karena was mortified, but we all had a good time.
(2) Her boss also hired 4 Christmas carolers who came dressed in typical "A Christmas Carol" attire. We ended up cruising up and down the block singing Christmas carols to the neighbors along with them. At first I thought it was pretty cheesy, but after seeing them hugging their neighbors, I thought it was a good example of "Peace on Earth, Goodwill towards men."
(3) After chowing down on some good appetizers at the first party, we proceeded to the second party and ate some delicious Greek food and even more desserts including baklava. This party was thrown by one of the nurses I work with in the hospital. He, along with the other nurses, are so generous and loving people that I'm amazed everytime. Oh yeah, and I did end up having two drinks with virtually no alcohol in them whatsoever, and still ended up completely red-faced.
Saturday, December 14, 2002
SECRET SANTA
This past week, we drew names for Secret Santa and our only rule was to keep our gift total under $20. With that in mind, I thought I'd be pretty generous if I gave a tin of those Danish butter cookies, a date book organizer and calculator, and something else. Karena kept mentioning to me that I needed something nicer and definitely more of it. So my last gift turned out to be one small and one large aromatherapy candles.
Okay, so that's a little skimpy and cheap. But what's the worst that could happen, right? So she opens up her gifts and even though she may not have gotten what she wanted, there's no real harm done, right?
Well, I spoke too soon. Because what I didn't know was that we were all going to sit in a big circle yesterday and have everyone open up their gifts in front of everybody just before revealing who the gift giver is. And to make matters worse, everyone else's gifts were so good: baskets of fruit, baskets of sausage and cheese, wine, etc. So, I was pretty embarassed to have everyone see what I ended up getting my Secret Santa person.
Next year, I'll do better (and listen to Karena). Promise!
This past week, we drew names for Secret Santa and our only rule was to keep our gift total under $20. With that in mind, I thought I'd be pretty generous if I gave a tin of those Danish butter cookies, a date book organizer and calculator, and something else. Karena kept mentioning to me that I needed something nicer and definitely more of it. So my last gift turned out to be one small and one large aromatherapy candles.
Okay, so that's a little skimpy and cheap. But what's the worst that could happen, right? So she opens up her gifts and even though she may not have gotten what she wanted, there's no real harm done, right?
Well, I spoke too soon. Because what I didn't know was that we were all going to sit in a big circle yesterday and have everyone open up their gifts in front of everybody just before revealing who the gift giver is. And to make matters worse, everyone else's gifts were so good: baskets of fruit, baskets of sausage and cheese, wine, etc. So, I was pretty embarassed to have everyone see what I ended up getting my Secret Santa person.
Next year, I'll do better (and listen to Karena). Promise!
Thursday, December 12, 2002
BUYING KARENA'S MOM A GIFT
Today is Karena's mom's birthday. So with that comes a lot of joy ... and nervous frustration for me as I seek to find just the perfect gift for her that says "happy birthday" but also says "don't hate me because I'm taking your daughter away."
So there I was, the only guy in a very crowded Robinson's May women's section. I felt very uncomfortable there, but was determined to find a good gift. Even getting a good deal with secondary to finding a good gift. Can you believe that? Anyway, I wound up finding a pretty nice shirt so I bought it. Little did I realize that I was in the "Womens" section (aka, the LARGE women's section) so I had to go back with Karena later to find another shirt. I was a little disappointed since I wanted to do it all without Karena's help, but in the end, I was really glad she was there for me. It's good to know that we're a team.
Now, I just hope her mom likes the gift ...
(I'll keep you posted). =)
Today is Karena's mom's birthday. So with that comes a lot of joy ... and nervous frustration for me as I seek to find just the perfect gift for her that says "happy birthday" but also says "don't hate me because I'm taking your daughter away."
So there I was, the only guy in a very crowded Robinson's May women's section. I felt very uncomfortable there, but was determined to find a good gift. Even getting a good deal with secondary to finding a good gift. Can you believe that? Anyway, I wound up finding a pretty nice shirt so I bought it. Little did I realize that I was in the "Womens" section (aka, the LARGE women's section) so I had to go back with Karena later to find another shirt. I was a little disappointed since I wanted to do it all without Karena's help, but in the end, I was really glad she was there for me. It's good to know that we're a team.
Now, I just hope her mom likes the gift ...
(I'll keep you posted). =)
Wednesday, December 11, 2002
IT'S ALL ABOUT THE NOSTALGIA
I don't know if a part of me really wants cable or what, but I've been finding myself veering over to the higher channel numbers on my TV set lately. One such channel in LA is Channel 56 KDOC. Two shows they have during dinner time are Family Ties and The Cosby Show.
I don't know what it is about those shows, but I loved them so much while growing up that it still makes me laugh out loud to watch them ... even today. I guess it just brings back to a simpler time when I didn't really have a care in the world. I loved the '80s: the music, the TV shows, the life I had then.
Now, things are so much more complicated that sometimes I just enjoy a break from reality to look back.
I don't know if a part of me really wants cable or what, but I've been finding myself veering over to the higher channel numbers on my TV set lately. One such channel in LA is Channel 56 KDOC. Two shows they have during dinner time are Family Ties and The Cosby Show.
I don't know what it is about those shows, but I loved them so much while growing up that it still makes me laugh out loud to watch them ... even today. I guess it just brings back to a simpler time when I didn't really have a care in the world. I loved the '80s: the music, the TV shows, the life I had then.
Now, things are so much more complicated that sometimes I just enjoy a break from reality to look back.
Tuesday, December 10, 2002
WITH APOLOGIES
I know I sought your opinion on whether to get a haircut before taking our pre-wedding pictures. And I know the overwhelming response was for me to keep my hair at its current length. But, after thinking it over the last few days, I've decided to head to the barber shop. So, sorry guys. I going against your opinions.
Let's face it: my hair is nappy right now. And a little trim will hopefully make it look a little better for the pictures.
I know I sought your opinion on whether to get a haircut before taking our pre-wedding pictures. And I know the overwhelming response was for me to keep my hair at its current length. But, after thinking it over the last few days, I've decided to head to the barber shop. So, sorry guys. I going against your opinions.
Let's face it: my hair is nappy right now. And a little trim will hopefully make it look a little better for the pictures.
Monday, December 09, 2002
I WANT MY MTV
As a guy who's only had cable for two years of my entire life (during my UCLA years), I've always had times where I wanted it and almost thought I needed it.
But now is a time where I really do need it. Why?
Karena and I want to get our groove on the dance floor on April 26th, but we're Chinese and as we all know, Chinese people have no rhythm. So, I was thinking that if I had MTV, we could watch to see how different people dance to all different types of music. That way, we could really cut it up no matter what the DJ decides to play.
But this desire still isn't enough for me to fork over the $45 a month to pay for cable.
So, I guess I'll just have to go out there on April 26th and embarass myself like I normally do.
I can't wait. =)
As a guy who's only had cable for two years of my entire life (during my UCLA years), I've always had times where I wanted it and almost thought I needed it.
But now is a time where I really do need it. Why?
Karena and I want to get our groove on the dance floor on April 26th, but we're Chinese and as we all know, Chinese people have no rhythm. So, I was thinking that if I had MTV, we could watch to see how different people dance to all different types of music. That way, we could really cut it up no matter what the DJ decides to play.
But this desire still isn't enough for me to fork over the $45 a month to pay for cable.
So, I guess I'll just have to go out there on April 26th and embarass myself like I normally do.
I can't wait. =)
Sunday, December 08, 2002
WHEN DID I GET SO "GROWN UP?"
When did I get so "grown up" that I get tired at 9:30 pm?
When did I get so "grown up" that I eat more for nourishment than for pure enjoyment?
When did I get so "grown up" that I disregard the beautiful sunsets we've been having in favor of being a couch potato in front of my TV?
When did I get so "grown up" that calling friends to keep in touch becomes a hassle?
When did I get so "grown up" that going to church on a Sunday becomes more like a business trip that anything else?
When did I get so "grown up" that putting up Christmas decorations with my family becomes more of a chore than a blessing?
This is no way to live.
Jesus said, "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 18: 3-4)
Lord, show me the way.
When did I get so "grown up" that I get tired at 9:30 pm?
When did I get so "grown up" that I eat more for nourishment than for pure enjoyment?
When did I get so "grown up" that I disregard the beautiful sunsets we've been having in favor of being a couch potato in front of my TV?
When did I get so "grown up" that calling friends to keep in touch becomes a hassle?
When did I get so "grown up" that going to church on a Sunday becomes more like a business trip that anything else?
When did I get so "grown up" that putting up Christmas decorations with my family becomes more of a chore than a blessing?
This is no way to live.
Jesus said, "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven." (Matthew 18: 3-4)
Lord, show me the way.
Saturday, December 07, 2002
DRIVING TO THE AIRPORT
Last night before church, I had the privilege of driving my friends Mark and Gina to the airport, as they headed up to San Jose for the weekend. Afterwards, I began to realize just how much I enjoy driving people to the airport. I think it gives me a little time to spend with them to talk about their upcoming trip or just what's been really going on their lives. Plus, it's nice to be able to be the guy who starts out their vacation or trip. And it's even nice to be able to pick people up from the airport. That way, there's more talking involved and you can hear all the stories about where they've just been.
And for some strange reason, I don't get too stressed while driving there, even though it's an absolute madhouse and people are always cutting me off without signaling. But somehow, I've grown comfortable with that and manage to enjoy it.
Last night before church, I had the privilege of driving my friends Mark and Gina to the airport, as they headed up to San Jose for the weekend. Afterwards, I began to realize just how much I enjoy driving people to the airport. I think it gives me a little time to spend with them to talk about their upcoming trip or just what's been really going on their lives. Plus, it's nice to be able to be the guy who starts out their vacation or trip. And it's even nice to be able to pick people up from the airport. That way, there's more talking involved and you can hear all the stories about where they've just been.
And for some strange reason, I don't get too stressed while driving there, even though it's an absolute madhouse and people are always cutting me off without signaling. But somehow, I've grown comfortable with that and manage to enjoy it.
Thursday, December 05, 2002
LAKERS OR FLAKERS?
I've waited to share my two cents about our three-time World Champion Lakers because I seem to always get myself into trouble when I talk about them. But after another loss last night (this time to the hated Utah Jazz), I can't keep quiet anymore.
Here are the facts: The Lakers record now stands at 7-13 and are in LAST place in the West's Pacific Division (read: even the Clippers have a better winning percentage). They are about a quarter way into the season with both Shaq and Kobe in the lineup, and they still aren't winning or looking anything like champions.
Here are my thoughts: Although I can't stand to see them lose, I'm only minimally worried. This is probably just what the doctor ordered. For the last two seasons, I think the Lakers have gotten cocky. They've relied too much on their talent, and not enough on working together as a team. Plus, it looks like they think their opponents will just give up once they see they're playing the Lakers. Whatever the case may be, all these loses will eventually serve as the much-needed wake-up call they've needed for so long now. All they have to do is make the playoffs. Then, we'll watch the Lakers finally turn it on and make another strong run at the championship.
I've waited to share my two cents about our three-time World Champion Lakers because I seem to always get myself into trouble when I talk about them. But after another loss last night (this time to the hated Utah Jazz), I can't keep quiet anymore.
Here are the facts: The Lakers record now stands at 7-13 and are in LAST place in the West's Pacific Division (read: even the Clippers have a better winning percentage). They are about a quarter way into the season with both Shaq and Kobe in the lineup, and they still aren't winning or looking anything like champions.
Here are my thoughts: Although I can't stand to see them lose, I'm only minimally worried. This is probably just what the doctor ordered. For the last two seasons, I think the Lakers have gotten cocky. They've relied too much on their talent, and not enough on working together as a team. Plus, it looks like they think their opponents will just give up once they see they're playing the Lakers. Whatever the case may be, all these loses will eventually serve as the much-needed wake-up call they've needed for so long now. All they have to do is make the playoffs. Then, we'll watch the Lakers finally turn it on and make another strong run at the championship.
Wednesday, December 04, 2002
PRE-MARITAL COUNSELING REVEALS ALL
First off, I have to say thanks for such a great response to my cowlick dilemma. After reading all your thoughts and opinions, I've decided to keep my hair this length for now. But I'll of course have to check with Karena first. =)
Anyway, after meeting with Pastor Clive last night, Karena and I discovered that we fight differently. When we have an argument, she tends to fight based on whatever issue we're fighting about. But I fight based on the fact that she's mad and I try to do something to fix that. I don't care so much about the issue, but she would rather me pretty much fight back. Pretty interesting.
We also did this really good exercise where we right down 3 things we wish the other would do more. Then, we spend time telling those wishes to the other and they have to repeat it in their own words. Confusing? Well, it's designed to improve your assertive, active listening, and developing compromises to meet each other half-way. Just try it with your significant other. I think it'll do wonders for your relationship!
First off, I have to say thanks for such a great response to my cowlick dilemma. After reading all your thoughts and opinions, I've decided to keep my hair this length for now. But I'll of course have to check with Karena first. =)
Anyway, after meeting with Pastor Clive last night, Karena and I discovered that we fight differently. When we have an argument, she tends to fight based on whatever issue we're fighting about. But I fight based on the fact that she's mad and I try to do something to fix that. I don't care so much about the issue, but she would rather me pretty much fight back. Pretty interesting.
We also did this really good exercise where we right down 3 things we wish the other would do more. Then, we spend time telling those wishes to the other and they have to repeat it in their own words. Confusing? Well, it's designed to improve your assertive, active listening, and developing compromises to meet each other half-way. Just try it with your significant other. I think it'll do wonders for your relationship!
Tuesday, December 03, 2002
COWLICK
I hate to admit it, but I have a cow lick in my hair. Don't know what that is? Well, if you've ever seen Alfalfa from The Little Rascals, then you know what a cowlick is. I hate that I have one, but the more I look at my hair, the more I can't deny that it's there. I don't know why, but that part of my hair just won't stay down. Any ideas?
Also, related to hair, Karena and I are taking some pre-wedding studio pictures next weekend. Do you think I should cut my hair between now and then? I personally like my hair shorter these days (maybe to hide the cowlick), but I was wondering what the general public thought. Please let me know! Thanks.
I hate to admit it, but I have a cow lick in my hair. Don't know what that is? Well, if you've ever seen Alfalfa from The Little Rascals, then you know what a cowlick is. I hate that I have one, but the more I look at my hair, the more I can't deny that it's there. I don't know why, but that part of my hair just won't stay down. Any ideas?
Also, related to hair, Karena and I are taking some pre-wedding studio pictures next weekend. Do you think I should cut my hair between now and then? I personally like my hair shorter these days (maybe to hide the cowlick), but I was wondering what the general public thought. Please let me know! Thanks.
Monday, December 02, 2002
THE BREAD AND THE CUP
One thing that I always do on Communion Sunday is look at both the bread wafer and the cup of grape juice very closely. If you haven't noticed, the bread wafers they serve at CEFC all have a cross in them. No, it doesn't really resemble the Cross, but it does remind me of it. That just reminds me of what my life has cost and how He was broken for us. That's very comforting to me because when I feel broken, I know that He is right there with me because He's been broken too. And if He is the only One who can die on the Cross and rise from the dead, I know that only He can put me back together again.
As for the cup, the thing I always do is look at the reflection of the lights from within the grape juice. It makes all the lights look like little bright pellets in the juice. That just reminds me of how Christ's cleansing blood can purify us so much that we are like bright little lights in a dark world. And let me tell you, so many times, I am in desperate need of that purification. That's why I take that time so seriously. I need to humbly come before God and confess all my sins so that I can be worthy of taking the bread and the cup. And then, I feel ready to enter the world and be one of those pellets of light.
One thing that I always do on Communion Sunday is look at both the bread wafer and the cup of grape juice very closely. If you haven't noticed, the bread wafers they serve at CEFC all have a cross in them. No, it doesn't really resemble the Cross, but it does remind me of it. That just reminds me of what my life has cost and how He was broken for us. That's very comforting to me because when I feel broken, I know that He is right there with me because He's been broken too. And if He is the only One who can die on the Cross and rise from the dead, I know that only He can put me back together again.
As for the cup, the thing I always do is look at the reflection of the lights from within the grape juice. It makes all the lights look like little bright pellets in the juice. That just reminds me of how Christ's cleansing blood can purify us so much that we are like bright little lights in a dark world. And let me tell you, so many times, I am in desperate need of that purification. That's why I take that time so seriously. I need to humbly come before God and confess all my sins so that I can be worthy of taking the bread and the cup. And then, I feel ready to enter the world and be one of those pellets of light.
Sunday, December 01, 2002
8 MILE
I would be remiss if I didn't post a follow-up blog to all the Eminem/"8 Mile" comments on my guestbook. Yes, I did end up going to see the movie last night. But, I rationalized it with myself by using two free movie passes for Karena and me to see it so technically, we didn't give Eminem any money. But you know how that is.
Anyway, I was pretty disappointed in the movie because I thought it dragged in a lot of places. I saw a lot of comparisons to Prince's "Purple Rain." And even though I didn't like that movie either, I thought Prince's story lines were better than those in "8 Mile." The best parts of "8 Mile" were when the rap battles were going on.
But anyway, back to what I really wanted to talk about. I tend to be a guy who roots for people who are trying to "get it together." For example, Snoop Dogg and 2Pac are two rappers who never would be considered for a humanitarian award. But I stand behind them, to a certain extent, because I feel like they have made great strides to better themselves (Snoop gave up smoking marijuana and now coaches a kids' football team; 2Pac was in the midst of making some major changes for the better in his life before his "thug life" mentality got the best of him). Now, I wouldn't say Snoop and 2Pac are positive role models by any means, but I support them for trying to change their lives for the better because they realized their old lifestyles held no merit.
Is Eminem there yet? I don't think so. But you can't help but be surprised and do a double-take during the scene in the movie when he gently sings a lullaby to his sister so she can sleep. I'd imagine that's not all that different from the way he treats his real-life daughterm, Hallie. I'm hoping that Eminem gets his act together and starts to tone down his anger. He's got millions of teenage fans following his every move and listening to every lyric he writes. Right now, that's pretty dangerous. But if he could turn a new leaf, that could be very powerful.
Okay, that's what I had to say. Feel free to start up the ol' guestbook discussions again! =)
I would be remiss if I didn't post a follow-up blog to all the Eminem/"8 Mile" comments on my guestbook. Yes, I did end up going to see the movie last night. But, I rationalized it with myself by using two free movie passes for Karena and me to see it so technically, we didn't give Eminem any money. But you know how that is.
Anyway, I was pretty disappointed in the movie because I thought it dragged in a lot of places. I saw a lot of comparisons to Prince's "Purple Rain." And even though I didn't like that movie either, I thought Prince's story lines were better than those in "8 Mile." The best parts of "8 Mile" were when the rap battles were going on.
But anyway, back to what I really wanted to talk about. I tend to be a guy who roots for people who are trying to "get it together." For example, Snoop Dogg and 2Pac are two rappers who never would be considered for a humanitarian award. But I stand behind them, to a certain extent, because I feel like they have made great strides to better themselves (Snoop gave up smoking marijuana and now coaches a kids' football team; 2Pac was in the midst of making some major changes for the better in his life before his "thug life" mentality got the best of him). Now, I wouldn't say Snoop and 2Pac are positive role models by any means, but I support them for trying to change their lives for the better because they realized their old lifestyles held no merit.
Is Eminem there yet? I don't think so. But you can't help but be surprised and do a double-take during the scene in the movie when he gently sings a lullaby to his sister so she can sleep. I'd imagine that's not all that different from the way he treats his real-life daughterm, Hallie. I'm hoping that Eminem gets his act together and starts to tone down his anger. He's got millions of teenage fans following his every move and listening to every lyric he writes. Right now, that's pretty dangerous. But if he could turn a new leaf, that could be very powerful.
Okay, that's what I had to say. Feel free to start up the ol' guestbook discussions again! =)
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