Thursday, October 31, 2002
POTLUCK
In honor of Halloween, we have an "orange and black" potluck at work every year. And personally, I think it is the dumbest, stupidest, most difficult potluck ever. Basically, everything you bring has to be orange or black or something close to that.
Last year, I spent a long time thinking about what to bring and finally settled on something I was pretty happy with: grass jelly. You know the stuff, right? It's that Chinese jello type stuff that you can eat with shaved ice or alone. Anyway, there's the black kind that isn't so much sweet and the yellow kind that is much sweeter. Personally, I like the yellow kind because it's sweeter. But my co-workers hated the whole thing and nobody ate any.
So this year, I wanted to try something different. So, there I was, walking all around Vons looking for something orange and black, but I didn't find a darn thing. So, I opted for just the thing I always bring -- turkey and vegetables ... with the vegetables being carrots since they're orange.
But again, nobody ate any. Forget it. I hate this orange and black potluck. Next time, I'm just going to buy cookies.
In honor of Halloween, we have an "orange and black" potluck at work every year. And personally, I think it is the dumbest, stupidest, most difficult potluck ever. Basically, everything you bring has to be orange or black or something close to that.
Last year, I spent a long time thinking about what to bring and finally settled on something I was pretty happy with: grass jelly. You know the stuff, right? It's that Chinese jello type stuff that you can eat with shaved ice or alone. Anyway, there's the black kind that isn't so much sweet and the yellow kind that is much sweeter. Personally, I like the yellow kind because it's sweeter. But my co-workers hated the whole thing and nobody ate any.
So this year, I wanted to try something different. So, there I was, walking all around Vons looking for something orange and black, but I didn't find a darn thing. So, I opted for just the thing I always bring -- turkey and vegetables ... with the vegetables being carrots since they're orange.
But again, nobody ate any. Forget it. I hate this orange and black potluck. Next time, I'm just going to buy cookies.
Wednesday, October 30, 2002
MORE COUNSELING
We had another session of pre-marital counseling last night at Pastor Clive's place. We had a great time talking about our similarities/differences, especially as they pertained to our upbrining and family life.
The most interesting thing was being able to determine what role we each had in our family life growing up. I realized that I was the peacemaker between my parents, siblings, etc so that's why I try to always make peace between people and don't want other people's feelings to be hurt. Hmm .. interesting.
What role did YOU play in your family that caused you to be the way that you are? I'm curious to know. Hit me back on my guestbook, if you feel like sharing.
We had another session of pre-marital counseling last night at Pastor Clive's place. We had a great time talking about our similarities/differences, especially as they pertained to our upbrining and family life.
The most interesting thing was being able to determine what role we each had in our family life growing up. I realized that I was the peacemaker between my parents, siblings, etc so that's why I try to always make peace between people and don't want other people's feelings to be hurt. Hmm .. interesting.
What role did YOU play in your family that caused you to be the way that you are? I'm curious to know. Hit me back on my guestbook, if you feel like sharing.
THE JOYS OF DAYLIGHT SAVINGS TIME
The knock on daylight savings time is that it's always dark when you get out of work. Yes, that is true. But luckily for me, I get out a little bit earlier than most people. And so I got to see the most beautiful sunset I have seen in a while. Thanks to the LA smog, there were all kinds of pinks, blues, violets, oranges. Beautiful.
The knock on daylight savings time is that it's always dark when you get out of work. Yes, that is true. But luckily for me, I get out a little bit earlier than most people. And so I got to see the most beautiful sunset I have seen in a while. Thanks to the LA smog, there were all kinds of pinks, blues, violets, oranges. Beautiful.
Tuesday, October 29, 2002
OFF ON A MONDAY
You would think that having a day off during the week would be a good thing. But after having three Mondays off in a row (because I've worked three Saturdays in a row), I've decided that I hate having Mondays off. Why? Well, I'm usually at home on Mondays and that just means I have to answer about 50 phone calls -- 49 of which are crank calls or telemarketers. Plus, there's always errands to run -- going to the bank, to the post office, doing your laundry, etc. No fun stuff.
Well, the good news is that I'm going to China in less than two weeks and I can't wait. That'll definitely break the monotony of these last few work weeks and being off on Mondays to play secretary and gopher at home.
In other news, I finally got my cousin Allison's website address and put up a link. Check out what a new UC Davis has going on in her head and in her heart.
You would think that having a day off during the week would be a good thing. But after having three Mondays off in a row (because I've worked three Saturdays in a row), I've decided that I hate having Mondays off. Why? Well, I'm usually at home on Mondays and that just means I have to answer about 50 phone calls -- 49 of which are crank calls or telemarketers. Plus, there's always errands to run -- going to the bank, to the post office, doing your laundry, etc. No fun stuff.
Well, the good news is that I'm going to China in less than two weeks and I can't wait. That'll definitely break the monotony of these last few work weeks and being off on Mondays to play secretary and gopher at home.
In other news, I finally got my cousin Allison's website address and put up a link. Check out what a new UC Davis has going on in her head and in her heart.
Monday, October 28, 2002
SEVENTH HEAVEN
It's a very cliche title, I know. But how sweet this is!!! Congratulations to the 2002 World Series champion Anaheim Angels! (That definitely has a nice ring to it!)
I have to admit that I felt good about Game 7 because as Karena and I were driving down to Laguna Beach to meet her family at their time share, we drove by Edison Field. And we did that just as they were done singing the national anthem and we saw the fireworks and the F-14 fly-over. It was such a great sight to see as we were driving, with the radio blasting, that I knew we were in for something good. "The next time I see you, Edison, we'll be celelbrating a championship and you'll be the Home of the Champs," I said as I looked back one last time at the stadium.
I ended up watching the game with Karena's family, including her huge-Giant-fan father. So, I knew I had to keep my cheering, jumping up and down, and screaming to a minimum. So that's why I had to be so restrained while talking to Michael, Jason, my cousin Allison and others. But don't get me wrong, I was EXCITED! In fact, as soon as Karena and I left to drive back home, I started jumping up and down, pumping my fist.
As we drove back past Edison again, the Saturn blimp was stillf flying around, about 8 helicopters were circling. But I tell you, there was not a more beautiful sight than seeing Edison all lit up as the Home of the Champs.
Congrats again to our team and our city, indeed, the City of Angels.
It's a very cliche title, I know. But how sweet this is!!! Congratulations to the 2002 World Series champion Anaheim Angels! (That definitely has a nice ring to it!)
I have to admit that I felt good about Game 7 because as Karena and I were driving down to Laguna Beach to meet her family at their time share, we drove by Edison Field. And we did that just as they were done singing the national anthem and we saw the fireworks and the F-14 fly-over. It was such a great sight to see as we were driving, with the radio blasting, that I knew we were in for something good. "The next time I see you, Edison, we'll be celelbrating a championship and you'll be the Home of the Champs," I said as I looked back one last time at the stadium.
I ended up watching the game with Karena's family, including her huge-Giant-fan father. So, I knew I had to keep my cheering, jumping up and down, and screaming to a minimum. So that's why I had to be so restrained while talking to Michael, Jason, my cousin Allison and others. But don't get me wrong, I was EXCITED! In fact, as soon as Karena and I left to drive back home, I started jumping up and down, pumping my fist.
As we drove back past Edison again, the Saturn blimp was stillf flying around, about 8 helicopters were circling. But I tell you, there was not a more beautiful sight than seeing Edison all lit up as the Home of the Champs.
Congrats again to our team and our city, indeed, the City of Angels.
Sunday, October 27, 2002
RELIVING GAME 6
Wow, what a comeback! Here is a recap of how Game 6 played out for me last night:
I had been sitting there for nearly seven innings in total disgust. The Angels were playing the worst baseball I have seen them play since they started the season 6-14. I was so frustrated, I threw my hands up in the air and said, "The Angels don't deserve to win this. Just look at the way they're playing! I hpe they have the champagne ready in the Giants locker room!" And with that, I walked away from the TV and into my car to head to church for Missions Conference.
As I was parking my car, I heard Scott Spiezio's amazing three-run homer. And with that, I said to myself, "Man, I'm going to church!" I didn't want to jinx anything or alter my life just because the Angels were suddenly back in the game. Besides, knowing God, being missions-minded, and going to church are WAY, WAY, WAY more important than who wins anyway.
But still, I have to admit that it was difficult to concentrate at times, especially since the speaker kept bring up the fact that we were there despite the game going on.
Afterwards, Jason and I could not be more excited as Jesse came in to tell us that the Angels had prevailed. Jason was jumping all around the foyer and I threw my hands up in the air.
And now, we do it all again tonight for Game 7.
I can't wait.
Wow, what a comeback! Here is a recap of how Game 6 played out for me last night:
I had been sitting there for nearly seven innings in total disgust. The Angels were playing the worst baseball I have seen them play since they started the season 6-14. I was so frustrated, I threw my hands up in the air and said, "The Angels don't deserve to win this. Just look at the way they're playing! I hpe they have the champagne ready in the Giants locker room!" And with that, I walked away from the TV and into my car to head to church for Missions Conference.
As I was parking my car, I heard Scott Spiezio's amazing three-run homer. And with that, I said to myself, "Man, I'm going to church!" I didn't want to jinx anything or alter my life just because the Angels were suddenly back in the game. Besides, knowing God, being missions-minded, and going to church are WAY, WAY, WAY more important than who wins anyway.
But still, I have to admit that it was difficult to concentrate at times, especially since the speaker kept bring up the fact that we were there despite the game going on.
Afterwards, Jason and I could not be more excited as Jesse came in to tell us that the Angels had prevailed. Jason was jumping all around the foyer and I threw my hands up in the air.
And now, we do it all again tonight for Game 7.
I can't wait.
Saturday, October 26, 2002
AN OPEN LETTER TO THE ANAHEIM ANGELS
To The American League Champion Anaheim Angels Organization:
You guys HAVE to win tonight. I mean, it killed me to watch you guys lose that 4-3 heartbreaker in Game 4. And it was even worse watching the Giants steal a page out of your playbook by dropping 16 runs on your butts in Game 5. But tonight and for Game 7, things will be different. They HAVE to be.
You wanna know the last time I felt like this? It was when the Lakers were down 3 games to 2 to the Sacramento Kings. I mistakenly jumped ship too early and lost confidence in my boys. Of course, the Lakers dug it out and won their third straight championship. But, not a day goes by, that guys like Simon, Luong, and Aaron still tease me about my mistake.
But that won't happen this time. I have faith in you guys. I'm going to believe all the way 'til the end when you are crowned the World Champs.
Now, go get 'em.
To The American League Champion Anaheim Angels Organization:
You guys HAVE to win tonight. I mean, it killed me to watch you guys lose that 4-3 heartbreaker in Game 4. And it was even worse watching the Giants steal a page out of your playbook by dropping 16 runs on your butts in Game 5. But tonight and for Game 7, things will be different. They HAVE to be.
You wanna know the last time I felt like this? It was when the Lakers were down 3 games to 2 to the Sacramento Kings. I mistakenly jumped ship too early and lost confidence in my boys. Of course, the Lakers dug it out and won their third straight championship. But, not a day goes by, that guys like Simon, Luong, and Aaron still tease me about my mistake.
But that won't happen this time. I have faith in you guys. I'm going to believe all the way 'til the end when you are crowned the World Champs.
Now, go get 'em.
Friday, October 25, 2002
THE DECISION TO MARRY SOMEONE
After 26 years of living, I could not be more firmly convinced that great men always have great women in their life. Examples?
Look no further than the men and women who have shaped our lives growing up at CEFC up until now: Paul and Diana Lo, Dick and Carolyn Lee, Steve and Natalie Lo, Maurice and Beth Lee, Dewey and Janet Hall, Clive and Rhonda Chin, etc. The women were very strong and amazing, who had successful careers, ran their households, and genuinely cared for people. How did they do it, I'll never know. But I'm was and am so blessed to be a beneficiary of their care and concern over the years. And the men? Again, very intelligent, creative, gentle men who loved God, served fervantly, and inspired me to do better, try harder, and improve myself.
With all this in mind, I did not come across the decision to marry Karena lightly. I prayed long and hard about it. But I believe Karena is that very strong and amazing person that God has destined for me to be with for the rest of my life.
And hopefully, she will be the "great woman" to my "great man."
After 26 years of living, I could not be more firmly convinced that great men always have great women in their life. Examples?
Look no further than the men and women who have shaped our lives growing up at CEFC up until now: Paul and Diana Lo, Dick and Carolyn Lee, Steve and Natalie Lo, Maurice and Beth Lee, Dewey and Janet Hall, Clive and Rhonda Chin, etc. The women were very strong and amazing, who had successful careers, ran their households, and genuinely cared for people. How did they do it, I'll never know. But I'm was and am so blessed to be a beneficiary of their care and concern over the years. And the men? Again, very intelligent, creative, gentle men who loved God, served fervantly, and inspired me to do better, try harder, and improve myself.
With all this in mind, I did not come across the decision to marry Karena lightly. I prayed long and hard about it. But I believe Karena is that very strong and amazing person that God has destined for me to be with for the rest of my life.
And hopefully, she will be the "great woman" to my "great man."
Thursday, October 24, 2002
THE JINX IS ON
I hate to say it. I hate to admit it. But I'm done watching big games with my friends.
Last night, Gary and Michael came over to watch Game 4 of the World Series. We had a great time -- chomping down on Subway sandwiches, Fiddle Faddle, and peanuts. But after doing a lot of laughing and even more cheering, we watched the Angels lose 4-3. This, after Mike, Nathan, Jason and I got together to watch the Angels lose 4-3 in Game 1. Coincidence? I think not.
So, that's it. Yes, I had a great time with them. And yes, our friendships are probably strengthened by having us hang out together.
But, sorry to Mike, Jason, Nathan, Gary, and anyone else I've ever watched a game with. Tonight, I'm sitting in front of my TV for Game 5 alone!!!
I hate to say it. I hate to admit it. But I'm done watching big games with my friends.
Last night, Gary and Michael came over to watch Game 4 of the World Series. We had a great time -- chomping down on Subway sandwiches, Fiddle Faddle, and peanuts. But after doing a lot of laughing and even more cheering, we watched the Angels lose 4-3. This, after Mike, Nathan, Jason and I got together to watch the Angels lose 4-3 in Game 1. Coincidence? I think not.
So, that's it. Yes, I had a great time with them. And yes, our friendships are probably strengthened by having us hang out together.
But, sorry to Mike, Jason, Nathan, Gary, and anyone else I've ever watched a game with. Tonight, I'm sitting in front of my TV for Game 5 alone!!!
Wednesday, October 23, 2002
HAIRCUT
For the last year or so, my hair has gone through some crazy changes. Some of it has to do with the fact that I've been having my hair cut really short and then letting it grow really long (to save some money -- hey, I have to feed 350 people dinner in April!) =). But more of it has to do with the fact that my hair is thinning BIGTIME. This leads to a huge dilemma of whether to keep my hair short or grow it out long or do something in between.
Yesterday, I decided on something in between and it turned out pretty good. But it's going to be hard to maintain. Hopefully, Karena will become skillful with some scissors and the clippers and it'll be all good!
For the last year or so, my hair has gone through some crazy changes. Some of it has to do with the fact that I've been having my hair cut really short and then letting it grow really long (to save some money -- hey, I have to feed 350 people dinner in April!) =). But more of it has to do with the fact that my hair is thinning BIGTIME. This leads to a huge dilemma of whether to keep my hair short or grow it out long or do something in between.
Yesterday, I decided on something in between and it turned out pretty good. But it's going to be hard to maintain. Hopefully, Karena will become skillful with some scissors and the clippers and it'll be all good!
Tuesday, October 22, 2002
TOTAL GYM, TOTAL WORKOUT
I went over to Jason's place to work out with him, Luong, and Ricky yesterday. And I have to admit that although I was looking forward to hanging out with them, I didn't think the Total Gym we were going to use was going to give me that good of a workout. I just couldn't believe that something Chuck Norris and Christie Brinkley endorse could be all that. But boy, was I wrong.
I could not be more sore today. I don't think there is a muscle in my body that isn't hurting right now.
We were able to work on practically every large muscle group in our upper bodies while we watching "The Rookie." The movie helped pass the time and made the workout even more enjoyable.
I'll have to tell Chuck Norris and Christie Brinkley how impressed I am with their product.
I went over to Jason's place to work out with him, Luong, and Ricky yesterday. And I have to admit that although I was looking forward to hanging out with them, I didn't think the Total Gym we were going to use was going to give me that good of a workout. I just couldn't believe that something Chuck Norris and Christie Brinkley endorse could be all that. But boy, was I wrong.
I could not be more sore today. I don't think there is a muscle in my body that isn't hurting right now.
We were able to work on practically every large muscle group in our upper bodies while we watching "The Rookie." The movie helped pass the time and made the workout even more enjoyable.
I'll have to tell Chuck Norris and Christie Brinkley how impressed I am with their product.
Monday, October 21, 2002
FEELING DOWN
I really wasn't sure what is was. But it's been happening for the last two months or so. I'm all excited as I get ready for Sunday morning worship at CEFC. But once I get there and sit down, I start to feel down or even a little depressed. What is going on? I've been asking myself that same question with few answers.
Could it be that my heart is hurting over the state of non-Christians everywhere?
Could it be that church politics at CEFC has stunted and affected my spiritual passion for God?
Could it be all about the whole Pastor Clive situation?
All are possibilities that I've explored. But none of those are the true answer. I just didn't realize it ... until yesterday.
As I sat there, the feeling started to come over me again. But this time, I was reminded that church was a place where the broken, the down-trodden, the sick, the poor could come to worship God and be renewed. And that was me. After trying to put on "the face" to please everyone and get the job done, I could finally just come into His presence and worship as my true self -- all messed up, broken, hurting, etc.
And that just makes me worship God all the more because He takes us all, just as we are, and transforms us into some good -- no, something better.
I really wasn't sure what is was. But it's been happening for the last two months or so. I'm all excited as I get ready for Sunday morning worship at CEFC. But once I get there and sit down, I start to feel down or even a little depressed. What is going on? I've been asking myself that same question with few answers.
Could it be that my heart is hurting over the state of non-Christians everywhere?
Could it be that church politics at CEFC has stunted and affected my spiritual passion for God?
Could it be all about the whole Pastor Clive situation?
All are possibilities that I've explored. But none of those are the true answer. I just didn't realize it ... until yesterday.
As I sat there, the feeling started to come over me again. But this time, I was reminded that church was a place where the broken, the down-trodden, the sick, the poor could come to worship God and be renewed. And that was me. After trying to put on "the face" to please everyone and get the job done, I could finally just come into His presence and worship as my true self -- all messed up, broken, hurting, etc.
And that just makes me worship God all the more because He takes us all, just as we are, and transforms us into some good -- no, something better.
Sunday, October 20, 2002
CHILLIN', WATCHIN' THE GAME
One of the highlights of yesterday was being able to go to the boat (aka Clearman's Village) to watch Game 1 of the World Series with Michael, Jason, and Nathan. It was the perfect atmosphere to watch it because there was a huge crowd, a big TV, and all the "guy food" you can eat. There's nothing quite like watching Washburn vs. Bonds while chomping away on a cheeseburger, fries, and cheese bread. Plus, it was good to be able to catch up with the guys during the breaks in the action.
The only bad thing was that the Angels lost 4-3. But this postseason, they've turned me into a firm believer so all I have to say is:
Yes We Can! Yes We Can! Yes We Can! Yes We Can!
Prediction: Angels in 6.
One of the highlights of yesterday was being able to go to the boat (aka Clearman's Village) to watch Game 1 of the World Series with Michael, Jason, and Nathan. It was the perfect atmosphere to watch it because there was a huge crowd, a big TV, and all the "guy food" you can eat. There's nothing quite like watching Washburn vs. Bonds while chomping away on a cheeseburger, fries, and cheese bread. Plus, it was good to be able to catch up with the guys during the breaks in the action.
The only bad thing was that the Angels lost 4-3. But this postseason, they've turned me into a firm believer so all I have to say is:
Yes We Can! Yes We Can! Yes We Can! Yes We Can!
Prediction: Angels in 6.
Saturday, October 19, 2002
PRE-MARITAL COUNSELING
I can't even begin to express how excited I was about starting our pre-marital counseling with Pastor Clive last night. Now granted, I was a little bummed it had to be during Koinonia and all we did was take a sruvey of a bunch of questions, but I was still loving every minute of it! The survey was more like the SAT -- 165 questions all about finances, conflict resolution, sex, family background, religious issues, etc. Pastor Clive should get the results in a week or so and we're going to go through all the ones we scored lowly on.
I can't wait.
I can't even begin to express how excited I was about starting our pre-marital counseling with Pastor Clive last night. Now granted, I was a little bummed it had to be during Koinonia and all we did was take a sruvey of a bunch of questions, but I was still loving every minute of it! The survey was more like the SAT -- 165 questions all about finances, conflict resolution, sex, family background, religious issues, etc. Pastor Clive should get the results in a week or so and we're going to go through all the ones we scored lowly on.
I can't wait.
Thursday, October 17, 2002
CONGRATS
Congrats to Luong Baby on nailing down a new job. Even though it's far away, I'm happy for you, man.
Congrats to Luong Baby on nailing down a new job. Even though it's far away, I'm happy for you, man.
DISAPPOINTMENT
Well, it didn't turn out the way I had hoped. But I'm confident that God has a great plan for Karena and me. We just have to be patient.
Well, it didn't turn out the way I had hoped. But I'm confident that God has a great plan for Karena and me. We just have to be patient.
Tuesday, October 15, 2002
NOTE TO SELF
In the midst of all this, remember to:
Be prepared for the worst, hope for the best. And pray ... a lot.
In the midst of all this, remember to:
Be prepared for the worst, hope for the best. And pray ... a lot.
Monday, October 14, 2002
SUNDAY'S LOG
7:55am Ran out to get the newspaper from the driveway. The L.A. Times had come out with a totally new look that resembled the N.Y. Times. I guess they're trying to take another step up in the world.
8:20am Talked to my parents at length about the pros and cons of buying a house now or waiting for the housing market prices to drop. Also, discussed whether buying a bigger house now or later would be more beneficial. No conclusion is made.
10:20am Stroll into the back part of church to pray for the service and other prayer requests from members of our church, state, country, and world. I am overcome with a sense of passion for God as Pastor Clive delivers a great sermon on Romans 12, Koinonia's theme verses. The gist: Before we can be missions-minded and evangelize, we have to be transformed ourselves as a reasonable act of worship to God.
1:04pm I am feeling exhaused after Sunday school, but realize that I still have a very difficult EMC meeting to attend. And all I really want to do is flip on the Angels game and take a nice nap with the sounds of bats hitting balls in the background.
1:22pm I stroll into the EMC meeting and endure arguably the toughest meeting ever. I am so overcome with various emotions that I only say about six words during the near three hour meeting. I can't even muster the words to pray for Pastor Clive. Victor Shen speechless? Sad, but true.
4:24pm Arrive with Karena at Garfield Park in South Pasadena to celebrate Larry's birthday. Water guns are being shot off in every directions, all kinds of delicious Costco food is on the table. What is a down-trodden guy to do in this situation but pig out? And so I did.
5:08pm The mood lightens up as I get a call from Jason with "An ESPN update" telling me the Angels are winning 13-5. The people at Larry's birthday party erupt to the news. I call Mike, but nobody picks up. "Must be celebrating," I figure. I am again overcome with emotion -- but this time with excitement.
7:15pm Raymond calls and we talk about the housing market and ideas for a good skit for both Sandra's wedding and mine. I hand the phone to everybody (my parents, my aunt, Jonathan) and the conversation goes on for a while.
8:05 pm Allison calls and I get to speak with her for the first time since she left for UC Davis. She sounds pretty happy there and seems to be getting her school stuff done while having a good social life. Finding the perfect balance is hard, but essential to having a good college career.
8:47pm Leave to Rite-Aid to buy ice cream and hot fundge to bring to Karena's so we can watch Alias (she loves that Jennifer Garner and Michael Vartan)_and last week's ER (which we had on tape). I proceed to fall asleep in front of the TV.
11:58pm Karena wakes me up so I can drive home.
7:55am Ran out to get the newspaper from the driveway. The L.A. Times had come out with a totally new look that resembled the N.Y. Times. I guess they're trying to take another step up in the world.
8:20am Talked to my parents at length about the pros and cons of buying a house now or waiting for the housing market prices to drop. Also, discussed whether buying a bigger house now or later would be more beneficial. No conclusion is made.
10:20am Stroll into the back part of church to pray for the service and other prayer requests from members of our church, state, country, and world. I am overcome with a sense of passion for God as Pastor Clive delivers a great sermon on Romans 12, Koinonia's theme verses. The gist: Before we can be missions-minded and evangelize, we have to be transformed ourselves as a reasonable act of worship to God.
1:04pm I am feeling exhaused after Sunday school, but realize that I still have a very difficult EMC meeting to attend. And all I really want to do is flip on the Angels game and take a nice nap with the sounds of bats hitting balls in the background.
1:22pm I stroll into the EMC meeting and endure arguably the toughest meeting ever. I am so overcome with various emotions that I only say about six words during the near three hour meeting. I can't even muster the words to pray for Pastor Clive. Victor Shen speechless? Sad, but true.
4:24pm Arrive with Karena at Garfield Park in South Pasadena to celebrate Larry's birthday. Water guns are being shot off in every directions, all kinds of delicious Costco food is on the table. What is a down-trodden guy to do in this situation but pig out? And so I did.
5:08pm The mood lightens up as I get a call from Jason with "An ESPN update" telling me the Angels are winning 13-5. The people at Larry's birthday party erupt to the news. I call Mike, but nobody picks up. "Must be celebrating," I figure. I am again overcome with emotion -- but this time with excitement.
7:15pm Raymond calls and we talk about the housing market and ideas for a good skit for both Sandra's wedding and mine. I hand the phone to everybody (my parents, my aunt, Jonathan) and the conversation goes on for a while.
8:05 pm Allison calls and I get to speak with her for the first time since she left for UC Davis. She sounds pretty happy there and seems to be getting her school stuff done while having a good social life. Finding the perfect balance is hard, but essential to having a good college career.
8:47pm Leave to Rite-Aid to buy ice cream and hot fundge to bring to Karena's so we can watch Alias (she loves that Jennifer Garner and Michael Vartan)_and last week's ER (which we had on tape). I proceed to fall asleep in front of the TV.
11:58pm Karena wakes me up so I can drive home.
Sunday, October 13, 2002
FUNNIEST MOMENTS FROM EATING AT A CHINESE BANQUET WITH WHITE PEOPLE
Karena and I went to another wedding yesterday and sat with all her co-workers during the banquet. It was at a Chinese place in Cerritos. And let me tell you, it was interesting watching them eat all this traditional Chinese food. Here's the recap:
- Everyone starts playing with their chopsticks -- proving that they can use them correctly. But that gets old so they start putting them in their mouths to resemble fangs, in their noses, etc.
- When the cold plate comes, everyone agrees to try the jellyfish, but they all hate it. And I really mean HATE! So, I was forced to step up and try to eat all of it myself. (Hey, I'm really Chinese)
- When the lobster came, everyone tried to pick the pieces that were easy to get meat out of. And everybody was trying to be so polite by using their chopsticks to pry the meat out. Meanwhile, I took all the pieces with the legs and just bit down on those bad boys and feasted. I must have looked barbaric to them.
- Afterward, Karena wanted to put our plates with all the bones and shells on the serving dish so the waiters could take it all away. But I thought that might be perceived as too rude. But we did it anyway and it all worked out because all the white people at the table did it too.
- They were both grossed out and loved the fact that both the chicken and the fish dishes came complete with their heads. They played with both for a long time ... and I do mean loooooooooonnnnng time.
Karena and I just sat there, watching them experience a true Chinese banquet, and thought to each other, "Wow, wait 'til April 26th!"
Karena and I went to another wedding yesterday and sat with all her co-workers during the banquet. It was at a Chinese place in Cerritos. And let me tell you, it was interesting watching them eat all this traditional Chinese food. Here's the recap:
- Everyone starts playing with their chopsticks -- proving that they can use them correctly. But that gets old so they start putting them in their mouths to resemble fangs, in their noses, etc.
- When the cold plate comes, everyone agrees to try the jellyfish, but they all hate it. And I really mean HATE! So, I was forced to step up and try to eat all of it myself. (Hey, I'm really Chinese)
- When the lobster came, everyone tried to pick the pieces that were easy to get meat out of. And everybody was trying to be so polite by using their chopsticks to pry the meat out. Meanwhile, I took all the pieces with the legs and just bit down on those bad boys and feasted. I must have looked barbaric to them.
- Afterward, Karena wanted to put our plates with all the bones and shells on the serving dish so the waiters could take it all away. But I thought that might be perceived as too rude. But we did it anyway and it all worked out because all the white people at the table did it too.
- They were both grossed out and loved the fact that both the chicken and the fish dishes came complete with their heads. They played with both for a long time ... and I do mean loooooooooonnnnng time.
Karena and I just sat there, watching them experience a true Chinese banquet, and thought to each other, "Wow, wait 'til April 26th!"
CONGRATULATIONS
Whew! Now that most people have already heard, I can now finally say a true congratulations to Gary and his new bride-to-be Regina for getting engaged last weekend.
And on a side note, I have to say I'm pretty proud of myself for being able to hold in the good news for so long!
Whew! Now that most people have already heard, I can now finally say a true congratulations to Gary and his new bride-to-be Regina for getting engaged last weekend.
And on a side note, I have to say I'm pretty proud of myself for being able to hold in the good news for so long!
Saturday, October 12, 2002
A TRUE ONE-LINER
It's been a few weeks now since I went to Promise Keepers. And yet, one line that a speaker said is still ringing in my ears on a daily basis. He was talking about how exciting it was that in the midst of spiritual warfare, it's so amazing to see 15,000 men gathering in one room just to worship God. He said something to the effect of, "Satan has made one fatal mistake. He should have taken you out before you got here. But now, he's too late. You've made it here to Promise Keepers and God is already doing great things here and changing lives. Today, a wife has her husband back. Today, children have their father back. Today, parents have their son back."
What powerful and moving words.
Since then, I've wanted to say a modified version of it in Koinonia, but haven't had the chance. And honestly, as first, I didn't want to say it because I didn't totally think it would hold up in Koi. But after another night of really feeling the Holy Spirit amongst us, I have to say that I am ready to say it ... and mean it: Satan made a big mistake in not taking all of us Koinonians out before. Now, it's too late for him because we have a deep relationship with Jesus and true fellowship with one another.
Amen.
It's been a few weeks now since I went to Promise Keepers. And yet, one line that a speaker said is still ringing in my ears on a daily basis. He was talking about how exciting it was that in the midst of spiritual warfare, it's so amazing to see 15,000 men gathering in one room just to worship God. He said something to the effect of, "Satan has made one fatal mistake. He should have taken you out before you got here. But now, he's too late. You've made it here to Promise Keepers and God is already doing great things here and changing lives. Today, a wife has her husband back. Today, children have their father back. Today, parents have their son back."
What powerful and moving words.
Since then, I've wanted to say a modified version of it in Koinonia, but haven't had the chance. And honestly, as first, I didn't want to say it because I didn't totally think it would hold up in Koi. But after another night of really feeling the Holy Spirit amongst us, I have to say that I am ready to say it ... and mean it: Satan made a big mistake in not taking all of us Koinonians out before. Now, it's too late for him because we have a deep relationship with Jesus and true fellowship with one another.
Amen.
Friday, October 11, 2002
INCOMPETENCE
Richard Wong was a really good friend of mine in high school and college. One thing he used to always say that would crack me up is "Incompetence ... These are the things that make our country great" in that mellow, sarcastic voice he had. It was hilarious!
I got to thinking about that phrase again the other day when I was waiting in line at the grocery store. I tend to be a very fast person. I hate waiting. I hate making other people wait. So I try to do everything as fast as I can. That means, I have all my groceries placed on the conveyor belt with all the alike items close together. If I'm using coupons, they're all together, in my hand, ready to go. Also in my hand are the supermarket cards and my credit card, ready to swipe. I'm in and out of there really fast. But it seems that the people in front of me always have to be very slow. "Oh wait, I have my Vons card. Sorry." (fumble, fumble, fumble). "Hmm ... I thought I had it here. Here it is. No wait... " And then, they swipe it the wrong way.
I'm not saying that I'm impatient or that I don't sympathize with people. And maybe this is a huge character flaw of mine. But I just wish these people would just think ahead and get a few more things ready before it's their turn at the checkstand.
Richard Wong was a really good friend of mine in high school and college. One thing he used to always say that would crack me up is "Incompetence ... These are the things that make our country great" in that mellow, sarcastic voice he had. It was hilarious!
I got to thinking about that phrase again the other day when I was waiting in line at the grocery store. I tend to be a very fast person. I hate waiting. I hate making other people wait. So I try to do everything as fast as I can. That means, I have all my groceries placed on the conveyor belt with all the alike items close together. If I'm using coupons, they're all together, in my hand, ready to go. Also in my hand are the supermarket cards and my credit card, ready to swipe. I'm in and out of there really fast. But it seems that the people in front of me always have to be very slow. "Oh wait, I have my Vons card. Sorry." (fumble, fumble, fumble). "Hmm ... I thought I had it here. Here it is. No wait... " And then, they swipe it the wrong way.
I'm not saying that I'm impatient or that I don't sympathize with people. And maybe this is a huge character flaw of mine. But I just wish these people would just think ahead and get a few more things ready before it's their turn at the checkstand.
Thursday, October 10, 2002
PT APPRECIATION LUNCHEON
To celebrate PT month, UCLA's Human Resources treated our entire PT staff to a very fancy dinner. We had various California rolls and sushi, grilled chicken on skewers with peanut sauce, cheese and crackers, tamales, etc. And we ate like royalty -- on beautiful white table cloths, using cloth napkins, sitting on beautiful white chairs at a table with a centerpiece. And during the luncheon, they also gave us a very cheesy certificate (what am I going to do with it, put it on my fridge?) and a PT T-shirt. Too bad the T-shirt is red.
The problem?
Everything was very nice, but there was hardly enough food for everyone.
Plus, I still have my PT student with me. I didn't know it until we both got to the luncheon that he actually wasn't supposed to be there. So, I had to send him away empty-handed to buy some cheap Taco Bell food while I dined like a king. I felt terrible.
To celebrate PT month, UCLA's Human Resources treated our entire PT staff to a very fancy dinner. We had various California rolls and sushi, grilled chicken on skewers with peanut sauce, cheese and crackers, tamales, etc. And we ate like royalty -- on beautiful white table cloths, using cloth napkins, sitting on beautiful white chairs at a table with a centerpiece. And during the luncheon, they also gave us a very cheesy certificate (what am I going to do with it, put it on my fridge?) and a PT T-shirt. Too bad the T-shirt is red.
The problem?
Everything was very nice, but there was hardly enough food for everyone.
Plus, I still have my PT student with me. I didn't know it until we both got to the luncheon that he actually wasn't supposed to be there. So, I had to send him away empty-handed to buy some cheap Taco Bell food while I dined like a king. I felt terrible.
Wednesday, October 09, 2002
BOYS VS. GIRLS
For my entire life, I've always thought that girls had it more difficult than guys. I mean, just look at all the stuff girls have to go through: buying multiple dresses for proms and special events since they can only wear it once, having to deal with the pain of cramps and childbirth, always getting discriminated against, not making as much money as their guy counterparts, etc.
But now, I'm beginning to think that guys have it pretty tough too. Just in the few months that I've been engaged, I've learned what it truly means to be the spiritual leader of the relationship, to make decisions that REALLY matter (i.e. which house to buy and not just where to eat), and to love my fiance the way Christ loved the church.
It's definitely not easy to do those things ... but I'm loving it.
For my entire life, I've always thought that girls had it more difficult than guys. I mean, just look at all the stuff girls have to go through: buying multiple dresses for proms and special events since they can only wear it once, having to deal with the pain of cramps and childbirth, always getting discriminated against, not making as much money as their guy counterparts, etc.
But now, I'm beginning to think that guys have it pretty tough too. Just in the few months that I've been engaged, I've learned what it truly means to be the spiritual leader of the relationship, to make decisions that REALLY matter (i.e. which house to buy and not just where to eat), and to love my fiance the way Christ loved the church.
It's definitely not easy to do those things ... but I'm loving it.
Tuesday, October 08, 2002
WHY IS IT?
Why is it that life always has to be so tough and so unfair? Why is it that when you do 99 things right and 1 thing wrong, that people always nail you for the one you did wrong? Why is it that you can never really take satisfaction in the fact that you're generally doing everything right? Why is it that trying to be kind and considerate to people (both friends and strangers) doesn't get you anywhere?
Why is it?
Why is it that life always has to be so tough and so unfair? Why is it that when you do 99 things right and 1 thing wrong, that people always nail you for the one you did wrong? Why is it that you can never really take satisfaction in the fact that you're generally doing everything right? Why is it that trying to be kind and considerate to people (both friends and strangers) doesn't get you anywhere?
Why is it?
Monday, October 07, 2002
RUNNING
This has been a long time coming. Yesterday afternoon, the guys got together to play some softball at Barnes Park. There was a great turnout. And even though things started out a little rough, I was really happy to see a bunch of guys hang out. Even guys we don't get to see too often like Dennis and Ko showed up.
But I have to admit that the best part for me personally was getting some solid contact on the ball and making a run to first base. Yup, you heard me right: I was running to first. Now granted, it probably looked more like hobbling and I called for an immediate pinch runner once I hit the base, but it felt good to me anyway.
That is by far the thing I miss most after my knee surgery back in March. So those of you young'ns who can run, don't take it for granted!
This has been a long time coming. Yesterday afternoon, the guys got together to play some softball at Barnes Park. There was a great turnout. And even though things started out a little rough, I was really happy to see a bunch of guys hang out. Even guys we don't get to see too often like Dennis and Ko showed up.
But I have to admit that the best part for me personally was getting some solid contact on the ball and making a run to first base. Yup, you heard me right: I was running to first. Now granted, it probably looked more like hobbling and I called for an immediate pinch runner once I hit the base, but it felt good to me anyway.
That is by far the thing I miss most after my knee surgery back in March. So those of you young'ns who can run, don't take it for granted!
CONGRATULATIONS
I've been told before that I jump the gun too quickly in putting up my congratulation blogs on this website. So, just know that I say congratulations for now. And when you hear the good news, you'll know what (or who) I'm talking about!
I've been told before that I jump the gun too quickly in putting up my congratulation blogs on this website. So, just know that I say congratulations for now. And when you hear the good news, you'll know what (or who) I'm talking about!
Sunday, October 06, 2002
A SPORTS TOWN
Disclaimer: Even if you don't like sports, this blog is still worth reading. The biggest complaint I get about this page is that I talk about sports too much. But this one is only indirectly about sports.
After the Angels amazing defeat of the mightyYankees yesterday, I have to say that L.A. is a sports town again. And in a big way. Do you remember back in 1988 when the Lakers were back-to-back champs, the Dodgers were crowned world champs, and the then-L.A. Rams were prospering? This city was a much closer, tight-knit place.
Since then, the world has changed dramatically. Just look at the headlines: Police brutality, gangs, riots, etc have ripped this city apart. But what is brining this city back together? What is causing us to join hand-in-hand, looking past race, past age, past color or creed? One HUGE thing is being able to cheer on the three-time defending champion Lakers, the back-to-back Sparks (uhh, I guess), and now the feel-good Angels. It just goes to show that we are still the city of champions.
I love L.A.
(We love it!)
Disclaimer: Even if you don't like sports, this blog is still worth reading. The biggest complaint I get about this page is that I talk about sports too much. But this one is only indirectly about sports.
After the Angels amazing defeat of the mightyYankees yesterday, I have to say that L.A. is a sports town again. And in a big way. Do you remember back in 1988 when the Lakers were back-to-back champs, the Dodgers were crowned world champs, and the then-L.A. Rams were prospering? This city was a much closer, tight-knit place.
Since then, the world has changed dramatically. Just look at the headlines: Police brutality, gangs, riots, etc have ripped this city apart. But what is brining this city back together? What is causing us to join hand-in-hand, looking past race, past age, past color or creed? One HUGE thing is being able to cheer on the three-time defending champion Lakers, the back-to-back Sparks (uhh, I guess), and now the feel-good Angels. It just goes to show that we are still the city of champions.
I love L.A.
(We love it!)
Friday, October 04, 2002
HOUSE HUNTING
In the process of our house hunting, I've been pretty surprised by what I consider to be important when looking for a place to live.
Square footage, nice location, beautiful interior and exterior, nice neighbors, etc. are all important.
But I was so bummed to find out that one of the places we are considering has no cell phone reception. That alone may keep me from taking this house seriously.
Pretty sad, huh?
In the process of our house hunting, I've been pretty surprised by what I consider to be important when looking for a place to live.
Square footage, nice location, beautiful interior and exterior, nice neighbors, etc. are all important.
But I was so bummed to find out that one of the places we are considering has no cell phone reception. That alone may keep me from taking this house seriously.
Pretty sad, huh?
Thursday, October 03, 2002
A SPORTS FANATIC
I didn't really know this about myself, but I am a sports fantatic! And I really do mean fanatic. Karena is getting tired of having to watch sports with me all the time, but I just can't seem to break away from it. For example, during last night's Angels victory over the Yankees, I was jumping up and down, shouting and screaming at the TV, and clapping up a storm. It was crazy -- almost as crazy as when I watch Lakers games ... but not quite. Anyway, Karena thinks I'm weird, but I love getting into games like that, especially when it comes to the playoffs.
My prediction: Angels in 5 (You gotta believe!)
I didn't really know this about myself, but I am a sports fantatic! And I really do mean fanatic. Karena is getting tired of having to watch sports with me all the time, but I just can't seem to break away from it. For example, during last night's Angels victory over the Yankees, I was jumping up and down, shouting and screaming at the TV, and clapping up a storm. It was crazy -- almost as crazy as when I watch Lakers games ... but not quite. Anyway, Karena thinks I'm weird, but I love getting into games like that, especially when it comes to the playoffs.
My prediction: Angels in 5 (You gotta believe!)
Wednesday, October 02, 2002
A NEW LOOK
If you guys haven't noticed already, my page looks a little different. We all know it was well overdue. Let me know what you think of the new look. I have to give my props to Nathan for helping me out and giving My Thoughts a little more color and style.
If you guys haven't noticed already, my page looks a little different. We all know it was well overdue. Let me know what you think of the new look. I have to give my props to Nathan for helping me out and giving My Thoughts a little more color and style.
Tuesday, October 01, 2002
DINNER WITH THE CHINS
The EMC had the privilege of having dinner with Pastor Clive and his family Sunday night. Rhonda cooked about 7 dishes and bought a few so it was a real food-fest ... and all of it was good. Afterward, we just sat around and chatted about how the two of them were doing in the midst of all this. I have to say that it is great to see such a strong loving, supportive couple at work. It's a beautiful thing.
Anyway, it was very interesting to hear Rhonda's perspective on the whole thing, especially how this has affected their family life. After eating with them, I was definitely more sensitive to keeping them in prayer.
The EMC had the privilege of having dinner with Pastor Clive and his family Sunday night. Rhonda cooked about 7 dishes and bought a few so it was a real food-fest ... and all of it was good. Afterward, we just sat around and chatted about how the two of them were doing in the midst of all this. I have to say that it is great to see such a strong loving, supportive couple at work. It's a beautiful thing.
Anyway, it was very interesting to hear Rhonda's perspective on the whole thing, especially how this has affected their family life. After eating with them, I was definitely more sensitive to keeping them in prayer.
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