Thursday, July 31, 2003
5 MORE YEARS, 5 MORE YEARS
After much prayer and thinking and discussion, I decided that this would be my last year serving on Koinonia core. And since Nathan is probably leaving the L.A. area soon, he will not be on the core next year either. This marks the end of our terms in Koinonia core since the beginning of the group about five years ago. Last Tuesday's meeting was our last. It was a bittersweet moment, but one I tried not to think about since it's hard for me to let it go, even though it was my decision.
As Koinonia core chair this year, I have found it very rewarding and difficult. I struggled all year with stepping up and making decisions, helping to define the vision, and knowing how to conduct meetings appropriately. I feel like I never truly got a good handle of it, but I tried to do my best at the last meeting at Dewey and Janet's. They were kind enough to open up their home. But more importantly, they were very helpful in guiding me through this year. Like I have mentioned before, I am obsessed with the Office of the President and everything that comes with that. And in some ways, I initially saw my role as being like the President. But I realized that I wanted to be more of a facilitator and I was blessed to have good people like Dewey and Janet, Nathan, and Jason and Debbie to keep the group moving and to be strong leaders.
These five years were filled with many long meetings that left me heart-broken at times, supported and extremely encouraged during other times, and frustrated at other times. But all in all, it was a great ride. Koinonia is like my child. I've watched the grow and mature. Sure, the process was sometimes painful. But there are COUNTLESS times when I just stood back and watched in amazement at how God works. People have deepened their faith. Relationships have been built and in some cases rebuilt through our fellowship group. It's like watching your newborn baby take his first steps or speak his first words. I got to see FIRSTHAND the hands of God working in people's lives. And that is something I will never trade.
To steal a line from MasterCard, it's priceless.
After much prayer and thinking and discussion, I decided that this would be my last year serving on Koinonia core. And since Nathan is probably leaving the L.A. area soon, he will not be on the core next year either. This marks the end of our terms in Koinonia core since the beginning of the group about five years ago. Last Tuesday's meeting was our last. It was a bittersweet moment, but one I tried not to think about since it's hard for me to let it go, even though it was my decision.
As Koinonia core chair this year, I have found it very rewarding and difficult. I struggled all year with stepping up and making decisions, helping to define the vision, and knowing how to conduct meetings appropriately. I feel like I never truly got a good handle of it, but I tried to do my best at the last meeting at Dewey and Janet's. They were kind enough to open up their home. But more importantly, they were very helpful in guiding me through this year. Like I have mentioned before, I am obsessed with the Office of the President and everything that comes with that. And in some ways, I initially saw my role as being like the President. But I realized that I wanted to be more of a facilitator and I was blessed to have good people like Dewey and Janet, Nathan, and Jason and Debbie to keep the group moving and to be strong leaders.
These five years were filled with many long meetings that left me heart-broken at times, supported and extremely encouraged during other times, and frustrated at other times. But all in all, it was a great ride. Koinonia is like my child. I've watched the grow and mature. Sure, the process was sometimes painful. But there are COUNTLESS times when I just stood back and watched in amazement at how God works. People have deepened their faith. Relationships have been built and in some cases rebuilt through our fellowship group. It's like watching your newborn baby take his first steps or speak his first words. I got to see FIRSTHAND the hands of God working in people's lives. And that is something I will never trade.
To steal a line from MasterCard, it's priceless.
Monday, July 28, 2003
GRAY AREAS
What are gray areas? They are areas when things are not so clear cut -- as in neither black nor white. In fact, gray areas are so gray that it's even gray whether you spell it "gray" or "grey." To tell you the truth, I don't even know the correct answer to that one.
Anyway, the Koinonia guys were talking about gray areas in the Christian life recently and the discussion was one of the best we ever had.
Everything from going to R-rated movies to listening to certain kinds of music (like Eminem) to dating a non-Christian to saying words like "ass" or "damn" or "b*tch", etc. were discussed. We didn't get to cover all the topics because the discussion got so intense, but we basically decided that if it did not cause you or others to stumble, that it was probably okay. The fine line, of course, is being in the world, but not of it. That is, we have to be able to hang out with sinners like Jesus did, but not get brought down by them. Instead, we have to bring them up.
Any thoughts? Hit me back on the guestbook.
P.S. Speaking of the guestbook, Simon has been putting down some good stuff there. You're basically getting two blogs in one site. Check it out!
What are gray areas? They are areas when things are not so clear cut -- as in neither black nor white. In fact, gray areas are so gray that it's even gray whether you spell it "gray" or "grey." To tell you the truth, I don't even know the correct answer to that one.
Anyway, the Koinonia guys were talking about gray areas in the Christian life recently and the discussion was one of the best we ever had.
Everything from going to R-rated movies to listening to certain kinds of music (like Eminem) to dating a non-Christian to saying words like "ass" or "damn" or "b*tch", etc. were discussed. We didn't get to cover all the topics because the discussion got so intense, but we basically decided that if it did not cause you or others to stumble, that it was probably okay. The fine line, of course, is being in the world, but not of it. That is, we have to be able to hang out with sinners like Jesus did, but not get brought down by them. Instead, we have to bring them up.
Any thoughts? Hit me back on the guestbook.
P.S. Speaking of the guestbook, Simon has been putting down some good stuff there. You're basically getting two blogs in one site. Check it out!
Sunday, July 27, 2003
GRACE AND MATTHEW'S WEDDING
Yesterday began another round of 3 weddings in 4 weeks for us. But I try my hardest not to think of it that way because each wedding should be its own special occasion. And they are.
Yesterday's was no exception. It was very different being in a room of 600 and only knowing about 20 people (from CEFC). The rest were from other churches. It was amazing how they really made their wedding a worship service. I mean, it was to the point where I literally forgot I was there for a wedding.
Their banquet was at Empress Pavilion, where we got married exactly three months ago. It was nice to go back there -- it brought back many memories.
Here's my weird thing about weddings: As the couple getting married, I think I was told the word "Congratulations" over 1,000 times. And there's nothing wrong with that at all. But it got to the point where I mistakenly said "congratulations" to some of the guests, just because I was hearing it so much. So, I decided that I would only be allowed to say "congratulations" to the couple once during the night. Instead, I would try to say something more meaningful. But it got difficult last night, but I managed to stay true to my promise.
Of course, this has to go on for the next two weddings too.
So Jacob, if I end up tripping over my words when I see you two this coming weekend, you'll know why.
Yesterday began another round of 3 weddings in 4 weeks for us. But I try my hardest not to think of it that way because each wedding should be its own special occasion. And they are.
Yesterday's was no exception. It was very different being in a room of 600 and only knowing about 20 people (from CEFC). The rest were from other churches. It was amazing how they really made their wedding a worship service. I mean, it was to the point where I literally forgot I was there for a wedding.
Their banquet was at Empress Pavilion, where we got married exactly three months ago. It was nice to go back there -- it brought back many memories.
Here's my weird thing about weddings: As the couple getting married, I think I was told the word "Congratulations" over 1,000 times. And there's nothing wrong with that at all. But it got to the point where I mistakenly said "congratulations" to some of the guests, just because I was hearing it so much. So, I decided that I would only be allowed to say "congratulations" to the couple once during the night. Instead, I would try to say something more meaningful. But it got difficult last night, but I managed to stay true to my promise.
Of course, this has to go on for the next two weddings too.
So Jacob, if I end up tripping over my words when I see you two this coming weekend, you'll know why.
Saturday, July 26, 2003
BOWLING FOR KOINONIA
The guys went out bowling last night in Alhambra. It was a decent turnout and everybody seemed to have a good time. But I have to admit that my bowling experience was an eye-opener for me personally.
I used to bowl at least 1-2 times a month in high school and during the first few years of college. That's a lot of bowling, my friends! And because of it (thanks to Enoch), I even have my own shoes! And during that time, I managed to get pretty good (even with my ugly form that is so stiff, people used to call me Frankenstein). My highest ever was a 189.
Anyway, I really haven't bowled since then. And now I realize just how old I'm getting. Now, I've gone through knee surgery, a constant back and hip pain (you guys probably don't realize just how much pain I'm in ALL the time), and other general ailments. Plus, now that I've begun working out some, I'm stronger, but couldn't decide what weight ball I should use. Heavier since I can lift more now, or the same weight since I'm used to it?
With so many different variables, the results were pretty depressing for me.
But the truth is that it didn't bother me all that much since everbody ended up having a good time (especially Aaron, Dewey, and Nathan who turned out some pretty impressive numbers).
The guys went out bowling last night in Alhambra. It was a decent turnout and everybody seemed to have a good time. But I have to admit that my bowling experience was an eye-opener for me personally.
I used to bowl at least 1-2 times a month in high school and during the first few years of college. That's a lot of bowling, my friends! And because of it (thanks to Enoch), I even have my own shoes! And during that time, I managed to get pretty good (even with my ugly form that is so stiff, people used to call me Frankenstein). My highest ever was a 189.
Anyway, I really haven't bowled since then. And now I realize just how old I'm getting. Now, I've gone through knee surgery, a constant back and hip pain (you guys probably don't realize just how much pain I'm in ALL the time), and other general ailments. Plus, now that I've begun working out some, I'm stronger, but couldn't decide what weight ball I should use. Heavier since I can lift more now, or the same weight since I'm used to it?
With so many different variables, the results were pretty depressing for me.
But the truth is that it didn't bother me all that much since everbody ended up having a good time (especially Aaron, Dewey, and Nathan who turned out some pretty impressive numbers).
Friday, July 25, 2003
GUESTBOOK FEEDBACK
The guestbook is blowing up!!! Thank you for all your entries and for adding your thoughts to My Thoughts. I would be remiss if I didn't resond to your comments. So here they are, in no particular order:
1. This Kobe thing still has me so depressed. It's sad to see what he and his family has to go through.
2. Why is the female involved always referred to as "the alleged accuser?" Why isn't she ever called "the alleged victim?" Just curious.
3. I understand and agree with a lot of what Simon and Jacob said. It's tough to be a man, especially once you've made mistakes. Many times people judge you on that one mess-up. No, the one mess up does NOT define the person, but it does add to the make-up of the person. If there's one thing I've learned from Simon over the years is that when life is at its toughest, that's when you know FOR SURE that God is all over your life, working in you and through you, to make your spiritual life stronger and more meaningful. I know we all have gone through various experiences that were painful at the time, but we have managed to grow from them. Hopefully, Kobe does too.
4. As for men and women, I apologize to women everywhere for forgetting to mention child birth and having to shave your legs,armpits, etc.. But I did recall the so-called "friend" (as Judy calls it), but I tried to make it sound a little nicer by calling it "cramps." Because women have to endure these types of things, I firmly believe their pain tolerance is much better than men's. But again I have to say, women should thank their lucky stars that they don't have to lead the way men do. Sometimes the pressure can be crippling ... yet rewarding.
5. These are just a few thoughts. As usual, feel free to hit me back on the guestbook and share -- good or bad. Thanks for reading!
The guestbook is blowing up!!! Thank you for all your entries and for adding your thoughts to My Thoughts. I would be remiss if I didn't resond to your comments. So here they are, in no particular order:
1. This Kobe thing still has me so depressed. It's sad to see what he and his family has to go through.
2. Why is the female involved always referred to as "the alleged accuser?" Why isn't she ever called "the alleged victim?" Just curious.
3. I understand and agree with a lot of what Simon and Jacob said. It's tough to be a man, especially once you've made mistakes. Many times people judge you on that one mess-up. No, the one mess up does NOT define the person, but it does add to the make-up of the person. If there's one thing I've learned from Simon over the years is that when life is at its toughest, that's when you know FOR SURE that God is all over your life, working in you and through you, to make your spiritual life stronger and more meaningful. I know we all have gone through various experiences that were painful at the time, but we have managed to grow from them. Hopefully, Kobe does too.
4. As for men and women, I apologize to women everywhere for forgetting to mention child birth and having to shave your legs,armpits, etc.. But I did recall the so-called "friend" (as Judy calls it), but I tried to make it sound a little nicer by calling it "cramps." Because women have to endure these types of things, I firmly believe their pain tolerance is much better than men's. But again I have to say, women should thank their lucky stars that they don't have to lead the way men do. Sometimes the pressure can be crippling ... yet rewarding.
5. These are just a few thoughts. As usual, feel free to hit me back on the guestbook and share -- good or bad. Thanks for reading!
Thursday, July 24, 2003
TV LAND
This is it.
The beginning of the end.
Tonight, we got hooked up to Dish Network. And just like any good drug dealer, they gave us a ton of channels for free for the first three months.
This, of course, means that my nice summer tan will be gone. This means that my marriage will fall apart. This means that I'll get fired from my job. Why?
Because I'll be parked in front of our TV all day and night.
It's the end of the world as I know it.
(In all seriousness, I hope this doesn't happen and I'm asking/begging you all to keep me accountable.)
This is it.
The beginning of the end.
Tonight, we got hooked up to Dish Network. And just like any good drug dealer, they gave us a ton of channels for free for the first three months.
This, of course, means that my nice summer tan will be gone. This means that my marriage will fall apart. This means that I'll get fired from my job. Why?
Because I'll be parked in front of our TV all day and night.
It's the end of the world as I know it.
(In all seriousness, I hope this doesn't happen and I'm asking/begging you all to keep me accountable.)
Wednesday, July 23, 2003
THE TRUTH ABOUT MEN AND WOMEN
When I was growing up, I always thought women had it much worse than men. After all, they had to buy and wear a different dress for every occasion. They had to deal with cramps. They had to buy all different kind of shoes. And society has decided that they had to always look good and be concerned about that. What did guys have to do? Absolutely nothing.
Well, now that I'm a husband and a grown man, I've realized that being a man is very difficult. As the man of the house, I have to make life-altering decisions. I have to know when to say "yes" and when to say "no" to Karena. I have to be fair, yet firm. I have to lay down the law at times. Plus, I have to make sure I'm being a good leader. I have to kill bugs. I have to make sure everything is working at home and if it's not, I have to figure out how to fix it. So far, I'm definitely not excelling in these areas, but I'm trying.
But this just proves my new point: No offense to the hard work that women have to do, but it's tough to be a guy.
When I was growing up, I always thought women had it much worse than men. After all, they had to buy and wear a different dress for every occasion. They had to deal with cramps. They had to buy all different kind of shoes. And society has decided that they had to always look good and be concerned about that. What did guys have to do? Absolutely nothing.
Well, now that I'm a husband and a grown man, I've realized that being a man is very difficult. As the man of the house, I have to make life-altering decisions. I have to know when to say "yes" and when to say "no" to Karena. I have to be fair, yet firm. I have to lay down the law at times. Plus, I have to make sure I'm being a good leader. I have to kill bugs. I have to make sure everything is working at home and if it's not, I have to figure out how to fix it. So far, I'm definitely not excelling in these areas, but I'm trying.
But this just proves my new point: No offense to the hard work that women have to do, but it's tough to be a guy.
Tuesday, July 22, 2003
24 HOUR FITNESS
Karena and I woke up early on our day off to go work out. She usually works out with her co-worker there so it was no big deal for her. But for me, I am strongly considering joining so I used her 10-day free trial to check it out.
I have to admit that I'm not a fan of the big gym experience. There's too many people. And even though there are so many machines, they were all taken ... even at 8am!
And I have prided myself in knowing I have not contributed a single penny to these big market gyms who, in my opinion, are always trying to scam you out of your money. But it looks like things may change.
Plus, it is nice to get to work out with Karena, even though she makes me do exercises I don't like.
Decisions, decisions ...
Karena and I woke up early on our day off to go work out. She usually works out with her co-worker there so it was no big deal for her. But for me, I am strongly considering joining so I used her 10-day free trial to check it out.
I have to admit that I'm not a fan of the big gym experience. There's too many people. And even though there are so many machines, they were all taken ... even at 8am!
And I have prided myself in knowing I have not contributed a single penny to these big market gyms who, in my opinion, are always trying to scam you out of your money. But it looks like things may change.
Plus, it is nice to get to work out with Karena, even though she makes me do exercises I don't like.
Decisions, decisions ...
Monday, July 21, 2003
CLAPPING
For some reason, I've become obsessed with watching people clap while they sing at church. Here is what I've found out:
1. This is not a hard set rule because there are many exceptions, but for the most part, guys clap by pulling their hands apart and back together. Girls clap with their arms swining from the front to the back.
2. Guys' clapping is usually more subtle. Girls' is usually more more energetic.
3. People from the motherland clap on the offbeats while we Americans clap on the downbeats (aka the same beat as the drum and bass).
Don't get me wrong, I'm a HUGE fan of worship time at church. But somehow, I manage to look at everyone clapping. So, if I'm sitting next to you next week, don't get self-conscious if I start checking you out when you clap.
For some reason, I've become obsessed with watching people clap while they sing at church. Here is what I've found out:
1. This is not a hard set rule because there are many exceptions, but for the most part, guys clap by pulling their hands apart and back together. Girls clap with their arms swining from the front to the back.
2. Guys' clapping is usually more subtle. Girls' is usually more more energetic.
3. People from the motherland clap on the offbeats while we Americans clap on the downbeats (aka the same beat as the drum and bass).
Don't get me wrong, I'm a HUGE fan of worship time at church. But somehow, I manage to look at everyone clapping. So, if I'm sitting next to you next week, don't get self-conscious if I start checking you out when you clap.
Sunday, July 20, 2003
BAD BOYS 2 REVIEW
Overall, I'd give this movie an A-. The movie was a little long (2 hours 20 minutes), but the action was good. Besides, it has Gabrielle Union in it (the girl from Bring It On). She's definitely an up-and-coming star. Will Smith was excellent. Martin Lawrence was hilarious.
But the real surprise was just how violent the movie was. There was a lot of things getting blown up ... including people with their various body parts (limbs, heads, etc) flying all over the place. If you can stomach that, it's definitely worth seeing.
But leave the kids at home.
Overall, I'd give this movie an A-. The movie was a little long (2 hours 20 minutes), but the action was good. Besides, it has Gabrielle Union in it (the girl from Bring It On). She's definitely an up-and-coming star. Will Smith was excellent. Martin Lawrence was hilarious.
But the real surprise was just how violent the movie was. There was a lot of things getting blown up ... including people with their various body parts (limbs, heads, etc) flying all over the place. If you can stomach that, it's definitely worth seeing.
But leave the kids at home.
Saturday, July 19, 2003
THE SCARLET LETTER
As much as I was trying NOT to comment on this again, I almost feel like I HAVE to since Kobe Bryant being charged of sexual assault is the talk of the town.
I'm hurt over the whole thing because the image and legacy of Kobe Bryant has been permanently altered. Sure, he'll still be able to excite crowds with his explosive drives to the basket, his amazing dunks, and his solid shooting. But this has NOTHING to do with basketball or this upcoming "Dream Team" season. But one thing I do know is I won't ever think of him as the same guy ever again.
Yes, I know I put him on a pedestal and now I got burned. It's my own fault. But I only held him to a higher standard because he always made sure he exuded exemplary character. He didn't party with the guys, he got married at an early age. Kobe was not your typical superstar athlete.
But I guess he is. Whether he's innocent or not of the charge, my view of him has changed. His clean-cut reputation is gone.
Is this unfair of me to feel this way over adultery? Maybe, because like he said, he is just a man like everybody else. And I know I am nowhere near perfect either. But, I guess I expected better from him.
Do I forgive him? Of course I do. But it still hurts me to know he made such a foolish decision.
He has handled the situation very well and I am VERY proud of that.
But this is the end of the innocence.
As much as I was trying NOT to comment on this again, I almost feel like I HAVE to since Kobe Bryant being charged of sexual assault is the talk of the town.
I'm hurt over the whole thing because the image and legacy of Kobe Bryant has been permanently altered. Sure, he'll still be able to excite crowds with his explosive drives to the basket, his amazing dunks, and his solid shooting. But this has NOTHING to do with basketball or this upcoming "Dream Team" season. But one thing I do know is I won't ever think of him as the same guy ever again.
Yes, I know I put him on a pedestal and now I got burned. It's my own fault. But I only held him to a higher standard because he always made sure he exuded exemplary character. He didn't party with the guys, he got married at an early age. Kobe was not your typical superstar athlete.
But I guess he is. Whether he's innocent or not of the charge, my view of him has changed. His clean-cut reputation is gone.
Is this unfair of me to feel this way over adultery? Maybe, because like he said, he is just a man like everybody else. And I know I am nowhere near perfect either. But, I guess I expected better from him.
Do I forgive him? Of course I do. But it still hurts me to know he made such a foolish decision.
He has handled the situation very well and I am VERY proud of that.
But this is the end of the innocence.
Friday, July 18, 2003
OPENING NIGHT
Karena and I are headed to see Bad Boys II tonight. Yes, it'll be a very late showing. Yes, it'll be a loooooong drive to Puente from the Westside and a loooooong drive home to Glendale.
But I have to admit that I'm excited to get to hang out with the people going - Si, Suzanne, Aaron, Enoch, among others. And I'm very excited to get to see the movie. I thought the first one was really funny -- good chemistry between Will Smith and Martin Lawrence. Hopefully, the second one does not disappoint.
And it's always fun to see a movie on opening night because everybody is into it and starts clapping, etc. There's an energy within the theater that just isn't there by even the second night out. I remember when I saw Ghostbusters 2 as a kid on opening night, everybody was going crazy when they first appeared on screen. I hope we see tonight's movie with that kind of a crowd.
Karena and I are headed to see Bad Boys II tonight. Yes, it'll be a very late showing. Yes, it'll be a loooooong drive to Puente from the Westside and a loooooong drive home to Glendale.
But I have to admit that I'm excited to get to hang out with the people going - Si, Suzanne, Aaron, Enoch, among others. And I'm very excited to get to see the movie. I thought the first one was really funny -- good chemistry between Will Smith and Martin Lawrence. Hopefully, the second one does not disappoint.
And it's always fun to see a movie on opening night because everybody is into it and starts clapping, etc. There's an energy within the theater that just isn't there by even the second night out. I remember when I saw Ghostbusters 2 as a kid on opening night, everybody was going crazy when they first appeared on screen. I hope we see tonight's movie with that kind of a crowd.
Thursday, July 17, 2003
WORKING HARD
Today, I worked hard. My thumbs hurt. My arms are tired. My legs are tired. My back is achy.
And yet somehow, I feel like it's a job well done today.
Today, I worked hard. My thumbs hurt. My arms are tired. My legs are tired. My back is achy.
And yet somehow, I feel like it's a job well done today.
Wednesday, July 16, 2003
PROF TALK
One of my patients is my former UCLA Biology professor. In fact, he's one of the heads of the department and a really nice guy. While I was working on him today, we began to talk about how he's been forced to lower his standards considerably in the last 20 years because the students' expectations have changed. They no longer expect a university education to make them be thinkers and have inquisitive minds. They are not driven by curiosity. Instead, all they ask is, "Will this be on the test?"
In theory, I totally agree with him. And it's sad for me to think about how America's educational system has gone don the tubes. But, the truth is that I'm only 6 years removed from my UCLA education and I remember what it was like to be pressured to get a good grade for professional schools (aka med school). And I have to admit that I was mostly driven by the almighty grade rather than driven by the curiosity on how the world works. But I blame the way the current American educational system is designed. There's WAY too much emphasis on grades and not enough on just learning.
One of my patients is my former UCLA Biology professor. In fact, he's one of the heads of the department and a really nice guy. While I was working on him today, we began to talk about how he's been forced to lower his standards considerably in the last 20 years because the students' expectations have changed. They no longer expect a university education to make them be thinkers and have inquisitive minds. They are not driven by curiosity. Instead, all they ask is, "Will this be on the test?"
In theory, I totally agree with him. And it's sad for me to think about how America's educational system has gone don the tubes. But, the truth is that I'm only 6 years removed from my UCLA education and I remember what it was like to be pressured to get a good grade for professional schools (aka med school). And I have to admit that I was mostly driven by the almighty grade rather than driven by the curiosity on how the world works. But I blame the way the current American educational system is designed. There's WAY too much emphasis on grades and not enough on just learning.
Tuesday, July 15, 2003
RANDOM THOUGHTS
I haven't written for nearly a week so I have a lot to say:
1. Karl Malone CANNOT wear Magic's jersey. Once a jersey is retired, it's retired. You can't pull it down from the rafters and use it again. Malone should just be happy that LA is cheering for him for the first time and leave it at that. #32 is sacred here.
2. I was a winner in Vegas for the first time ever ... albeit a very small winner. But I'm not such a big gambler so it's no big deal to me. But I AM a big eater ... and I did do quite a bit of eating. Thanks to everyone who made it such a good weekend for me and for my wife.
3. Yesterday was Karena's birthday. Happy birthday Wifey!
4. We went to Houston's last night in Century City with some old UCLA co-workers. So good! And so many laughs.
5. I think we are about to hire a gardener. So that means our weeding days may soon be over (or at least not as often). After hearing that news, I was jumping up and down and running around the house screaming in excitement. I hate weeding.
6. We had the distinct pleasure of having lunch with Ko and Charice last week. They are on a plane right now as I type on their way to Pennsylvania so he can go to prestigious Wharton for business school. We will miss them dearly, but we eagerly await their return to Southern California two years from now.
7. One of my biggest fears about being a husband and the "man of the house" was that I'd have to kill bugs. I hate doing it ... and plus I'm a little scared. But so far, I've been doing alright here. Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and do it.
I haven't written for nearly a week so I have a lot to say:
1. Karl Malone CANNOT wear Magic's jersey. Once a jersey is retired, it's retired. You can't pull it down from the rafters and use it again. Malone should just be happy that LA is cheering for him for the first time and leave it at that. #32 is sacred here.
2. I was a winner in Vegas for the first time ever ... albeit a very small winner. But I'm not such a big gambler so it's no big deal to me. But I AM a big eater ... and I did do quite a bit of eating. Thanks to everyone who made it such a good weekend for me and for my wife.
3. Yesterday was Karena's birthday. Happy birthday Wifey!
4. We went to Houston's last night in Century City with some old UCLA co-workers. So good! And so many laughs.
5. I think we are about to hire a gardener. So that means our weeding days may soon be over (or at least not as often). After hearing that news, I was jumping up and down and running around the house screaming in excitement. I hate weeding.
6. We had the distinct pleasure of having lunch with Ko and Charice last week. They are on a plane right now as I type on their way to Pennsylvania so he can go to prestigious Wharton for business school. We will miss them dearly, but we eagerly await their return to Southern California two years from now.
7. One of my biggest fears about being a husband and the "man of the house" was that I'd have to kill bugs. I hate doing it ... and plus I'm a little scared. But so far, I've been doing alright here. Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and do it.
Thursday, July 10, 2003
THE ANNIVERSARY NOBODY EVER REMEMBERS
I'm not sure why this is, but I've noticed that nobody ever remembers or celebrates the anniversary of when they got engaged.
Now, to me, I consider that a huge moment in one's life. And that is definitely the case for me. So, why not celebrate it? After all, it is the precursor to getting married.
Anyway, ours is July 9th (yesterday). We didn't get a chance to celebrate it, but I plan to take my wife out to dinner so we can recall that day in Santa Barbara when I asked for her hand in marriage.
Nobody may celebrate it or even consider it an anniversary, but we will.
I'm not sure why this is, but I've noticed that nobody ever remembers or celebrates the anniversary of when they got engaged.
Now, to me, I consider that a huge moment in one's life. And that is definitely the case for me. So, why not celebrate it? After all, it is the precursor to getting married.
Anyway, ours is July 9th (yesterday). We didn't get a chance to celebrate it, but I plan to take my wife out to dinner so we can recall that day in Santa Barbara when I asked for her hand in marriage.
Nobody may celebrate it or even consider it an anniversary, but we will.
Tuesday, July 08, 2003
LAKERLAND
This has been one wild NBA off-season for so many teams, especially the Lakers.
For off, I have to address the whole Kobe being arrested for allegedly sexually assualting someone. Now, I obviously don't know all the specifics so I really shouldn't comment. But I do have to agree with G.M. Mitch Kupchak that this is VERY much NOT like the Kobe we know. Our Kobe is image conscious, a home-body, and committed to being a husband and father. Now granted, anybody can screw up. But this just seems very hard for me to believe. And I hate to say that because if this is true, it must have been very difficult for the woman involved to come forward and speak with the police. But still, I'm standing true to "innocent until proven guilty."
On a much lighter note, the Lakers starting 5 next year will be : Gary Payton, Kobe Bryant, Karl Malone, Shaquille O'Neal, and ... anybody else they want to throw in that list of Western Conference All-Stars!!! Rick Fox, Devean George, Slava Medvedenko. Shoot, Jannergo Pargo even!
We will win it all next year. Mark my words. We WILL win it all.
This has been one wild NBA off-season for so many teams, especially the Lakers.
For off, I have to address the whole Kobe being arrested for allegedly sexually assualting someone. Now, I obviously don't know all the specifics so I really shouldn't comment. But I do have to agree with G.M. Mitch Kupchak that this is VERY much NOT like the Kobe we know. Our Kobe is image conscious, a home-body, and committed to being a husband and father. Now granted, anybody can screw up. But this just seems very hard for me to believe. And I hate to say that because if this is true, it must have been very difficult for the woman involved to come forward and speak with the police. But still, I'm standing true to "innocent until proven guilty."
On a much lighter note, the Lakers starting 5 next year will be : Gary Payton, Kobe Bryant, Karl Malone, Shaquille O'Neal, and ... anybody else they want to throw in that list of Western Conference All-Stars!!! Rick Fox, Devean George, Slava Medvedenko. Shoot, Jannergo Pargo even!
We will win it all next year. Mark my words. We WILL win it all.
Monday, July 07, 2003
MONDAY BLOODY MONDAY
I woke up this morning to blow my nose as usual. For those of you who don't know, I blow my nose about 200 times every morning. Anyway, suddenly, I realized I had a bloody nose. Now, I was pretty upset about the whole thing because it happened so suddenly and got all over my shirt and hand. Luckily, I was already in the bathroom. Can you imaging if that happened while I was still sleeping on our expensive sheets? That would have killed me. (And if that didn't kill me, I'm sure Karena would have!)
Plus, this is the second blood nose I've gotten in the last 4 days, after going about 10 years without getting any. So, this begs the question, why am I getting them? Do I need an air humidifier? Is it just from the heat or being around BBQs all weekend? Who knows?
All I know is that I hate Monday Bloody Mondays.
I woke up this morning to blow my nose as usual. For those of you who don't know, I blow my nose about 200 times every morning. Anyway, suddenly, I realized I had a bloody nose. Now, I was pretty upset about the whole thing because it happened so suddenly and got all over my shirt and hand. Luckily, I was already in the bathroom. Can you imaging if that happened while I was still sleeping on our expensive sheets? That would have killed me. (And if that didn't kill me, I'm sure Karena would have!)
Plus, this is the second blood nose I've gotten in the last 4 days, after going about 10 years without getting any. So, this begs the question, why am I getting them? Do I need an air humidifier? Is it just from the heat or being around BBQs all weekend? Who knows?
All I know is that I hate Monday Bloody Mondays.
Sunday, July 06, 2003
GETTING UPSET AT MYSELF
It was a difficult decision and one that I almost made. Today, I was supposed to help serve communion. That meant I had to dress up in a suit. But because Karena and I were up late preparing to have our families over for a BBQ, I forgot all about it. So, the minute I arrived, I freaked out and was so upset at myself.
Why? Because I expect better from myself. I had to get a replacement and everything went smoothly. But I was very disappointed in myself. So disappointed that I didn't even want to take communion because my heart was in the wrong place. I barely listened to the sermon, I barely sang a word. I basically just sat there, disgusted with myself.
And then, I came to this conclusion: I think I'm having a little trouble adapting to the rigorous schedule of married life. I definitely enjoy it, but when you're having to balance your time between working, doing laundry, pulling weeds, entertaing your family over for dinner, planning a house warming party (still in the works), and still hanging out with people, it becomes a little overwhelming at times. I think Karena has done a great job at smoothly transitioning into the wife role. But I tend to be a slow transition person and it's just taking me a little longer than I had hoped.
Hopefully, my level of responsibility (or irresponsibility, as the case may be) improves soon.
It was a difficult decision and one that I almost made. Today, I was supposed to help serve communion. That meant I had to dress up in a suit. But because Karena and I were up late preparing to have our families over for a BBQ, I forgot all about it. So, the minute I arrived, I freaked out and was so upset at myself.
Why? Because I expect better from myself. I had to get a replacement and everything went smoothly. But I was very disappointed in myself. So disappointed that I didn't even want to take communion because my heart was in the wrong place. I barely listened to the sermon, I barely sang a word. I basically just sat there, disgusted with myself.
And then, I came to this conclusion: I think I'm having a little trouble adapting to the rigorous schedule of married life. I definitely enjoy it, but when you're having to balance your time between working, doing laundry, pulling weeds, entertaing your family over for dinner, planning a house warming party (still in the works), and still hanging out with people, it becomes a little overwhelming at times. I think Karena has done a great job at smoothly transitioning into the wife role. But I tend to be a slow transition person and it's just taking me a little longer than I had hoped.
Hopefully, my level of responsibility (or irresponsibility, as the case may be) improves soon.
Saturday, July 05, 2003
FOURTH OF JULY
Karena and I started out our day by having McDonald's new breakfast sandwich -- the McGriddles. Let me tell you, they are awful. Sweet and salty should NOT go together! Save your money. They are NOT worth it.
Afterward, we spent the evening having a BBQ with Aaron, Reuel, Enoch, Gary and Regina, Steven and Jenn, and Katrina at Ruth and Raymond's place in Orange County. We had a good time talking about everything from marriage, food, TV, card games, etc.
Too bad we only managed to watch some fireworks on TV.
Karena and I started out our day by having McDonald's new breakfast sandwich -- the McGriddles. Let me tell you, they are awful. Sweet and salty should NOT go together! Save your money. They are NOT worth it.
Afterward, we spent the evening having a BBQ with Aaron, Reuel, Enoch, Gary and Regina, Steven and Jenn, and Katrina at Ruth and Raymond's place in Orange County. We had a good time talking about everything from marriage, food, TV, card games, etc.
Too bad we only managed to watch some fireworks on TV.
Thursday, July 03, 2003
BOWLING
I had the opportunity to hang out with many of my old UCLA co-workers last night at a bowling alley in Santa Monica. At first, Karena and I were shocked that they would pick a place so far (it's on 3rd Street -- almost near the ocean), but the atmosphere they create there is so fun. They blast music and having everyone there just made it an enjoyable experience. Karena and I decided not to bowl so we weren't committed to staying too late. But we were able to spend some good time catching up with people. There was a lot of hugging going on.
That just got me thinking about how I conduct myself at work. I'm not that friendly a person at work. I'm not anti-social or anything, but I just see work as a place where you go do you think to the best of your ability, do it quickly and effeciently, and get outta there as soon as you can so you can live your real life. I don't like staying late or just hanging out after work. And yet, even with that mindset, I still managed to develop such strong ties to my UCLA co-workers. It's amazing. So far, I'm nowhere near that to anybody at Kaiser, but I'm guessing that in time, it'll happen too.
I had the opportunity to hang out with many of my old UCLA co-workers last night at a bowling alley in Santa Monica. At first, Karena and I were shocked that they would pick a place so far (it's on 3rd Street -- almost near the ocean), but the atmosphere they create there is so fun. They blast music and having everyone there just made it an enjoyable experience. Karena and I decided not to bowl so we weren't committed to staying too late. But we were able to spend some good time catching up with people. There was a lot of hugging going on.
That just got me thinking about how I conduct myself at work. I'm not that friendly a person at work. I'm not anti-social or anything, but I just see work as a place where you go do you think to the best of your ability, do it quickly and effeciently, and get outta there as soon as you can so you can live your real life. I don't like staying late or just hanging out after work. And yet, even with that mindset, I still managed to develop such strong ties to my UCLA co-workers. It's amazing. So far, I'm nowhere near that to anybody at Kaiser, but I'm guessing that in time, it'll happen too.
Wednesday, July 02, 2003
PULLING WEEDS - WEEK 2
After working for 6 days straight, guess what I got for a reward? Yup, Karena and I pulled weeds again. This time, we both got sun burned ... and all we did was take care of one and a quarter of the plantars in our backyard. I went to sleep dreaming about weeds again.
But at night, we had the privilege of having dinner with Karena's parents, and two sets of aunts and uncles. We had a good time, even though we had to do dishes. It was all worth it.
After working for 6 days straight, guess what I got for a reward? Yup, Karena and I pulled weeds again. This time, we both got sun burned ... and all we did was take care of one and a quarter of the plantars in our backyard. I went to sleep dreaming about weeds again.
But at night, we had the privilege of having dinner with Karena's parents, and two sets of aunts and uncles. We had a good time, even though we had to do dishes. It was all worth it.
Tuesday, July 01, 2003
PEER PRESSURE
While working this weekend with only two other guys, I got peer pressured into eating at Carl's Jr., even though I already brought my lunch. When it's just 3 people and 2 decide to go, you just have to go. And then, one guys mentions that he's selling Carl's Jr. fund-raising packets for his son $5 for $45 worth of savings (if you use every single coupon of course, even the junky ones like a free soda if you buy all these things). Anyway, the other guy decides to buy one and I have no choice but to buy one too. So, now I have a boat-load of Carl's Jr. coupons that I don't know what to do with. I mean, I love the place, but not enough to try and save my maximum $45.
Ahh, who am I kidding? The Chinese and Montebello in me with make SURE I use up every single coupon!
While working this weekend with only two other guys, I got peer pressured into eating at Carl's Jr., even though I already brought my lunch. When it's just 3 people and 2 decide to go, you just have to go. And then, one guys mentions that he's selling Carl's Jr. fund-raising packets for his son $5 for $45 worth of savings (if you use every single coupon of course, even the junky ones like a free soda if you buy all these things). Anyway, the other guy decides to buy one and I have no choice but to buy one too. So, now I have a boat-load of Carl's Jr. coupons that I don't know what to do with. I mean, I love the place, but not enough to try and save my maximum $45.
Ahh, who am I kidding? The Chinese and Montebello in me with make SURE I use up every single coupon!
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