Wednesday, February 28, 2007
I have to admit that 3 months in, I am loving my role as uncle even more than expected! Sandra and Gabe's son Caleb is such a joy to be around.
And I surprised myself that I was turning a little emotional after reading last Sunday's Bible passage for the sermon about Caleb following the Lord wholeheartedly. It made me think, "Wow, my nephew is going to grow up and be a strong Christian and a great guy. I can't wait to see him grow up into the man of God he's been called to become!"
Joshua 14:6-14 says:
Now the men of Judah approached Joshua at Gilgal, and Caleb son of Jephunneh the Kenizzite said to him, “You know what the Lord said to Moses the man of God at Kadesh Barnea about you and me. I was forty years old when Moses the servant of the Lord sent me from Kadesh Barnea to explore the land. And I brought him back a report according to my convictions, but my brothers who went up with me made the hearts of the people melt with fear. I, however, followed the Lord my God wholeheartedly. So on that day Moses swore to me, ‘The land on which your feet have walked will be your inheritance and that of your children forever, because you have followed the Lord my God wholeheartedly.’
“Now then, just as the Lord promised, he has kept me alive for forty-five years since the time he said this to Moses, while Israel moved about in the desert. So here I am today, eighty-five years old! I am still as strong today as the day Moses sent me out; I’m just as vigorous to go out to battle now as I was then. Now give me this hill country that the Lord promised me that day. You yourself heard then that the Anakites were there and their cities were large and fortified, but, the Lord helping me, I will drive them out just as he said.”
Then Joshua blessed Caleb son of Jephunneh and gave him Hebron as his inheritance. So Hebron has belonged to Caleb son of Jephunneh the Jenizzite ever since, because he followed the Lord, the God of Israel, wholeheartedly.
Tuesday, February 27, 2007
As a sports fan, I've seen my share of gruesome injuries over the years. And when I hear that there is one to see, I usually go out of my way to watch it again over and over (including in slow motion), even though it's painfully disgusting.
Last night, there was another gruesome injury that I watched about 5 times but can't bear to watch again. You can check out Clippers' guard Shaun Livingston's terrible knee injury here, if you'd like, but let me warn you, it is really gross. In fact, while pulling up this link, I couldn't bear watch it.
But I still think the most gruesome and most notorious on-the-court or on-the-field injury is Washington quarterback Joe Theismann getting his leg broken by Lawrence Taylor. This isn't the best quality footage, but you get the point.
In any case, in sports, accidents happen. And now with YouTube, you can watch them over and over again . . . not that I'm going to be doing that.
I hope Shaun Livingston and all the other athletes injured have a quick recovery.
Monday, February 26, 2007
Sunday, February 25, 2007
For the last several months, I've been dealing with unhappiness and anger I feel toward someone who we'll call "Adam."
It's been getting worse recently because I don't like the way Adam does things or the way he says things. And I feel like his value system is so wrong. The bottom line is that I simply do not respect him . . . at all.
It's now gotten to the point where I'm almost unhappy that good things happen to him. And I'm much more depressed on days when I know I'll interact with him.
And that's terrible! This may be the first time in my life that I've ever felt this way about anybody. I've always tried my best to love everybody or at least try to like everybody.
But Adam is my toughest challenge. God has placed him in my life to teach me. I still have a lot to learn.
Please pray for me . . . and for Adam.
Saturday, February 24, 2007
So, this is an honest, legitimate question: What do you do with old things given to you by ex-boy/girlfriends?
Did you return them?
I've had countless friends tell me that this doesn't work. Getting all the stuff you've ever given someone after the relationship is over is almost always the most traumatizing event of people's lives. It hurts more than anything. It was as if their ex was saying that they wanted every part of you out of their life. And that's gotta sting. So, that's why I never returned any stuff from my ex-girlfriends.
Did you keep it?
And if so . . .
Did you hide it? Did you store it away? Or did you/are you still using it?
Being the pack-rat that I am, I kept most of the stuff. But I don't use any of it. I think unless it's THAT practical, it'll end up being disrespectful to Karena. So, I ended up storing most of it in my room at my parent's house inside drawers or deep within my closet, etc. And even though I love nostalgia, I never really pulled it out to look at again, but somehow it was always nice to know it was there.
But whenever I did stumble upon that stuff again, it didn't make me reminisce at all. Instead, it just reminded me how these things and that time in my life have shaped me into the person I am today. And that was enough for me to put the stuff away again.
Recently, I found myself changing my views and being okay finally throwing all that stuff out without any hesitation. Letters and cards that once held so much meaning and sentimental value to me now could be let go.
I began to realize that I'm comfortable with myself and where I am in life. And I'm comfortable in my marriage, too, to know that those old things from ex-girlfriends just don't pertain to me anymore. I still care for the people a great deal, but the things themselves just didn't matter.
These items don't need to be saved anymore. They've served their purpose of helping me see with a little more clarity where I've been, where I am now, and where I'm going.
But I'm done with them.
Friday, February 23, 2007
My favorite people to have a conversation with about self-awareness and future plans/goals are Michael and Richard. I still remember a great conversation we had at the Montebello Denny's about 7 or 8 years ago about "who we are" and "who we wanted to be."
Most recently, the three of us had a conversation about what motivated us. For me, even though I'm often hard on myself, am motivated by positive reinforcement. I tend to not do well when people come down on my harshly. Maybe it's the balance between my being hard on myself and other people's positive influence make for a nice all-around motivation tool.
Positive reinforcements help to drive me and influence what I do.
But I'm still inately a relatively lazy person. But I'm trying to change that . . . without being too hard on myself.
Wednesday, February 21, 2007
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
This has been a fun week in sports for me.
Most people would disagree with me, but I love the NBA's All-Star weekend. And this year was especially great because they wanted it to run smoothly in Las Vegas.
I thought the 3-point shootout was awesome, especially since former UCLA standout Jason Kapono won it. And I even loved the Skills Challenge, even though Kobe couldn't pass (hmm . . . just like in real life). I enjoyed seeing our local guys Jordan Farmar (former Bruin, too!) and Andrew Bynum play well in the Rookie/Sophomore Game. And I always love the Slam Dunk contest. I really loved Dwight Howard's dunk where he put a sticker on the backboard measuring 12'6" high.
And I loved the extra stuff, like Shaq dancing with LeBron and Dwight Howard and Charles beating an NBA ref in a foot race (although they shared that weird kiss on the lips afterward), and all the crazy antics from the dunk contest judges (Jordan, Dominique, Kobe, Dr. J, and Vince(Carter).
The All-Star game itself is just fun to see all those guys clowning around, having a good time, and willing to put on a great offensive show. And it was nice to have a Laker win the MVP award (Kobe, of course).
So, as everybody talks about how the All-Star weekend is so passe now, I say no. For me, I love it! Check out a 2 minute highlight of the entire weekend here.
Monday, February 19, 2007
I have to admit that even though I ended up having to go to Jacob and Victoria's baby shower without Karena, I had a great time. I'm still getting used to having guys get invited for a baby shower.
Anyway, they had fun games that were different than the usual baby shower games. Between coming up with baby boy names from the Bible and secular names, dressing up in a towel made to look like a diaper, and drawing what the future baby will look like.
And all this fun was in addition to all the good they had, including a chocolate fondue set.
I have to admit that I'm glad guys are getting invited to baby showers nowadays . . . and I'm glad to have been a part of this one.
Friday, February 16, 2007
Thursday, February 15, 2007
At the urging of my wife, I decided to finally see my primary care physician to get a physical and get all my various health ailments taken care of.
So, now, I have a few more appointments for specialists to take care of the coral stuck in my foot since our honeymoon, one for my snoring, and one for my itchy skin.
Also, I got some blood work done to check my blood sugar, cholesterol, thyroid, etc. After all, I have never gotten any of those checked out before.
But, as it turns out, my cholesterol is sky high. So, although that is not yet cause for concern, I definitely have to eat better and start working out again.
Wednesday, February 14, 2007
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
CHAN BROTHER/ LL COOL J WINNERS!
And the winners are . . .
RAPHAEL AND VICTOR!!!!!
The voting was fierce . . . and very close, but in the end, readers of this blog felt Raphael looked more like LL Cool J, 9-5.
Of course, there were also 2 write-in votes for Reuben. And I'm sure Ruth was greatful there were no write-in votes for her!
Many people figured I chose Reuel since I picked a photo of him wearing a visor much like LL Cool J's hat. The truth is that I picked the first pictures of Raphael and Reuel that I had and didn't give either much thought. But Karena was unhappy with the picture I chose. So, she made me pull up 4 different pictures of Reuel with the LL Cool J picture in the middle before she finally decided on the one I posted. So, you were all corrent in your thinking, but you underestimated Karena's strong desire to win!
Thanks to all who voted and shared in our fun this past week.
Hmmm . . . . I'm thinking a 5 minute foot massage, a 5 minute shoulder/neck massage, and a 5 minute back massage. Either way, I'm going to love it!
Monday, February 12, 2007
I had the privilege to play the Wii this weekend. I have to admit that I loved every game I played -- bowling, tennis, and baseball.
But after trying my best to dominate in each game by fling and flailing my right arm back and forth, I left feeling a little sore.
And by the time I woke up the next morning, my arm felt like it was ready to fall off. And even today, while at work, I had difficulty demonstrating exercises to my patients because my arm was so sore.
I wish I were ambidextrous.
Saturday, February 10, 2007
CONTINUING EDUCATION
One perk of working at Kaiser that I rarely take advantage of is taking reduced-priced continuing education classes.
But on Friday, I did just that. We heard all about the hip from one of today's living legends in Physical Therapy Shirley Sahrmann (that's her in the blue with some of my co-workers). In fact, many people brought her book in to have her sign it.
I have to admit that it was nice to not have to go to work and to spend time learning about new techniques and syndromes. Plus, I feel motivated to go back and treat some patients and look for new things. Hopefully, that'll help my patients get better.
And hopefully, this will encourage me to keep learning and taking advantage of this unique opportunity I have at Kaiser.
Friday, February 09, 2007
Wednesday, February 07, 2007
Tuesday, February 06, 2007
Monday, February 05, 2007
As previously mentioned, my parents have undergone a major "winter cleaning" in preparation for painting of our bedrooms and a change of the carpet. Many things were thrown out. And for a pack-rat like me, it was difficult to part with many items from my childhood.
But I think this helped inspire Karena too. She underwent a major "winter cleaning" at our house too. She even cleaned out my closet so that it looks like a Gap store again. (She did the same thing a few years ago). The house is much cleaner, but it also involved throwing out many items that were hard to part with. The most difficult was throwing out some of my Sports Illustrated magazines. I don't really know why I keep them, except to look at them years later. But I've decided to part with about half of them and throw out other keepsakes, including old cards and letters.
And even though I'm a pack-rat, I have to admit that the house looks great!
Sunday, February 04, 2007
Saturday, February 03, 2007
BEARD PAPA AND COFFEE TALK
I was interested to read two articles in today's LA Times Business section.
The first one was discussing how Beard Papa Sweet Cafe's are popping up all over in a reversal of fortune. Usually, it's American icons like McDonald's, Pizza Hut, and Kentucky Fried Chicken that end up going global. But now, Japanese Beard Papa and their delicious cream puffs are reversing the flow.
I first had one of their cream puffs when we went to visit Ko and Charice and their babies Max and Madeline. And let me tell you, they're delicious and a pretty good size too. We then had them again this past Sunday at our Young Married Couples Group meeting. Now, it seems like I'm talking about Beard Papa all the time. If you haven't had one yet, there's one in West LA on Sawtelle, one at Hollywood and Highland, and one in the plaza where OceanStar is in Monterey Park.
The second article reported that a taste test deemed McDonald's coffee to be the best, beating out Burger King, Starbucks, and Dunkin' Donuts. I enjoy coffee, but am not a big coffee drinker. But Karena is and she raves about Dunkin' Donuts. Anytime we travel back East (including our last trips to New York, Philadelphia, and even Cleveland), we always have to go to Dunkin' Donuts several times for their coffee. I agree with the taste test that Starbucks tastes burnt. But I don't think I've ever had McDonald's coffee so I can't comment on it.
But I know once I show Karena this article, she's going to flip. The LA Times should expect a Letter To The Editor really soon from her!
Friday, February 02, 2007
Last Friday, I neglected to tell my boss about two complaints that occurred from a doctor and a nurse about our PT department. She was unhappy she knew nothing about these cases when the doctor later confronted her about it. And I, of course, felt horrible about the whole thing.
And I think it was this incident, combined with my poor burger challenge showing that led me to having a nighmare at 4 am early Wednesday morning.
I dreamt that some of my co-workers and I were on different teams doing a timed challenge of who could jump off a roughly 50 story building and land on a huge trampoline the fastest. I remember that as I was hanging over the edge of the building, I was so scared because I'm afraid of heights. And that delay cost me a good time. I pleaded toward my boss for a recount or another chance, but she refused. And that got me worried and upset, as she would have to give me an "F" for a letter grade. That got me frantically upset and I began begging, pleading, and wailing aloud . . . both in my dream and in real life.
I ended up screaming out loud and even woke Karena up. She quickly woke me up to keep me from suffering further. And later, that made me think, "I thought you weren't supposed to wake someone up while they're dreaming? But then again, why would you want to make them suffer for longer?"
Anyway, I find it so interesting that dreams mirror real life. My co-worker strongly believes that dreams are ideas/thoughts from the day that you're not done processing. Clearly, this dream was the direct result of actual things going on in my life.
I also find it that such a crazy dream with such crazy ideas would totally make sense to me. I even woke up feeling so scared that I had such a bad score and would glady love the chance to jump off that building again. Then, I thought, what the $%!$%?!? What am I talking about? What am I crazy?
Dreams have always fascinated me. But for all my 30 years of fascination, I still have no answers.
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