Saturday, September 21, 2002
HOW TOUGH IS TOO TOUGH?
In everything in life, whether good or bad, there is always a difficult, tough circumstance that one must go through. For example, I love Karena and when we chose to start dating or even to get engaged, that really made us both very vulnerable. And sure there have been times when we've had to work out our differences. And that wasn't easy. Or as Koi core chair, there comes time when difficult decisions have to be made or people need gentle reminders. And that is not easy either. But it's just part of the territory.
But when does tough become too tough?
When do you say, "Okay, I guess this relationship is not going to work out because we have differences that are too great." (Not true for Karena and me). Or when do you say, "This isn't working" and scrap the whole thing? Are we just fighting a battle we can't win or pushing a rock uphill, just to have it fall crashing to the bottom?
I tend to be an optimist and think that we can cause change, that we can make a difference.
Yeah, it's not easy, but it can be done.
So let's do it.
In everything in life, whether good or bad, there is always a difficult, tough circumstance that one must go through. For example, I love Karena and when we chose to start dating or even to get engaged, that really made us both very vulnerable. And sure there have been times when we've had to work out our differences. And that wasn't easy. Or as Koi core chair, there comes time when difficult decisions have to be made or people need gentle reminders. And that is not easy either. But it's just part of the territory.
But when does tough become too tough?
When do you say, "Okay, I guess this relationship is not going to work out because we have differences that are too great." (Not true for Karena and me). Or when do you say, "This isn't working" and scrap the whole thing? Are we just fighting a battle we can't win or pushing a rock uphill, just to have it fall crashing to the bottom?
I tend to be an optimist and think that we can cause change, that we can make a difference.
Yeah, it's not easy, but it can be done.
So let's do it.
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